How much is Heze Chengwu's engagement?

There is this custom. Ten tables are still few, but now it seems to have gone up again. If the matchmaker sets up the media, men and women will feel ok after meeting. The man has to pay a thousand dollars first, then a thousand and one dowry, and then twenty thousand dollars when he gets married. Faint? I feel dizzy, too. Alas, I can't help it. None of this counts. I need the man to pay 100 Jin of good cotton, ten quilts and make quilts!