Why is a stay-at-home wife out of touch with society and can't even bring confidence to children?

It is basically a false proposition that a full-time wife is out of touch with society. In fact, more than half of the "working women" are really not as good as those "full-time wives", and they can only think that others will be "out of touch with society" and make up for it themselves.

There are two kinds of full-time wives, one can really be called "wife". Their husbands are either rich or expensive and have successful careers. They don't have to work nine to five to earn a meager salary, and they rarely need to do housework such as washing, cooking and cleaning. These things are naturally undertaken by nannies and domestic workers. They usually just need to help their husbands manage the front line at home, so that their husbands have no worries. When necessary, they can also walk from behind the scenes to the front desk and fight for the country hand in hand with their husbands.

Women who can be full-time wives, their husbands are either from extraordinary backgrounds or are themselves social elites. A woman who can be selected by such a man or family must be the best among women in IQ, talent and wrist! These women's horizons are much beyond most women!

Moreover, "the giants are too wide" is not so good. If you are not careful, you may be "replaced". Therefore, those women are always striving to improve their value and competitiveness, and it is impossible to "be divorced from society"!

The other is the "full-time mother" or "housewife" of ordinary families.

Among them, the "stay-at-home mothers" group are basically children who are still relatively young and have never attended kindergarten or primary school. These people only "temporarily" return to their families, focusing on taking care of their children and families.

Most of them will choose to return to the workplace after their children go to school! They are just ordinary people, most of whom are not particularly competitive. In order for their children to return to the workplace smoothly after school, they dare not relax at all. Even if you leave the field temporarily, you will not give up your study. Their self-discipline is much stronger than most ordinary women in the workplace! They will never allow themselves to be "out of touch with society"!

Housewives generally refer to mothers whose children are older, attend primary school, junior high school or even senior high school, and do not go to work or work by themselves. This group is the easiest to slack off and become "out of touch with society". However, in the current environment, the number of this group is not large.

Moreover, it is not only "going to work" that is "in line with society". This is the information age. There are many ways to understand and integrate into society. Where you spend your time and energy is the key to whether you can integrate into society and to what extent!

Women at this stage don't need to spend too much time and energy when their children are older. They have more free leisure time and enough time and energy than women in the workplace, so that they can know more about society and do what they want to do!

On the contrary, ordinary women in the workplace are busy between family and workplace all day, so it is difficult to spare more time and energy to understand the development of society, which leads to their gradual "separation from society" unconsciously!

Stereotypes, that's all.

A stay-at-home wife with high knowledge and high education should not be too happy. While accompanying children with high quality, we should take good care of family finances, support the home's rear area in all directions, sit on the military account and plan, so that the husband can work hard with peace of mind, and the children can study with peace of mind and grow up happily.

These successful people who strive for self-discipline know that the harder they work, the luckier they are, and they are out of touch with society, which does not exist.

It's just the deviation of survivors. All the people crying online are full-time mothers who have to take care of their babies at home. Nobody takes care of the baby at work. They have no income with their baby and are caught between Scylla and Charybdis.

These poor stay-at-home mothers are not the only ones who are out of touch with society. Too many people are trying their best to make a living. Besides heavy work, they are short of money. They just passively accept the wind and rain of society, which is almost out of touch in essence.

As for children's self-confidence, the key lies in family education or family atmosphere, which is not directly related to material conditions.

Some people are well-off, graduated from prestigious schools and have lived in a family full of repression and slander for a long time. No matter how excellent his studies are, he still looks like a timid and passive Nuo Nuo, depressed and self-abased.

There are also people with average family background, average grades and everything, who are happy in the family, full of happiness and natural self-confidence.

A full-time wife must have food and clothing, that is, there is no financial pressure, otherwise it is impossible to work full-time! Personally, I think they are happy and will not be out of touch with society at all, let alone go shopping with each other for beauty, fitness and shopping! Needless to say, many of them are investing in stocks. You don't need to know anything big or small in the world? They may know more than ordinary women who go out to work! Full-time is just a name. People have superior economic support, and they don't necessarily earn less than those who go out to work! As for children's self-confidence, it has nothing to do with parents, but should come from their own academic performance! Even if parents have Jinshan Yinshan, after all, they earned it themselves and have little to do with themselves. There's nothing to be proud of when you say it!

In the past, husbands and godsons,

Now they call it a full-time wife.

Is a stay-at-home wife happy?

It all depends on the doctor she married.

If her husband is strong and caring,

Enough to support a world,

Then she will be happy.

If her husband is not strong and loves less,

Can't bear the burden of family,

Then she won't be happy.

Some women don't want to go out to work,

Volunteer to stay at home and be a full-time wife.

Some women are helpless,

Can't go out to work.

But being a full-time wife doesn't mean being out of touch with society.

You can do something you can.

Confidence is not given by others.

I won it myself.

A harmonious and warm family,

Everyone is full of confidence.

A family that lives like a chicken feather,

How can I be confident?

Husband and wife are one,

Qi Li broke the gold medal.

Only family harmony,

Only when you are happy and confident.

You can't bring confidence. Let's look at the education of parents again. If you can't bring confidence to your children, most of the reasons are that parents are not confident.

Only a confident mother can bring confidence to her children. And being a stay-at-home mom doesn't mean lying flat. Stay-at-home mothers also have to teach themselves to remain confident.

If children can understand, stay-at-home wives don't just do nothing like parasites, they just want money, but the family division of labor is different and they also need to work. Children should also respect their mothers. Children often learn and get in touch with the topic of what their parents do at school. And if teachers and classmates are talking about what a decent job is at this time, children will naturally realize that this is something to be proud of, and compared with full-time mothers who don't go to work, children will doubt whether their mothers have done nothing and have no value. Just like the previous paragraph, a pupil wrote that his mother was a useless middle-aged woman. In that case, mom is really hurt. If my son thinks so, I will definitely tell him about it. That's why I'm afraid to meet such a girl. The situation always reminds me to be an enterprising mother. No matter whether I work full-time or at work in the future, I am a positive mother and a person with self-worth.

Speaking of this, we have to talk about the welfare of our country. For the huge population base, we can't provide a good guarantee for stay-at-home mothers. Our current stay-at-home mothers are in a state of confusion and hesitation. Because children have to take care of their babies at home. Anyone who helps with the children will go to work by himself. Oh, no,no. There are still many companies that discriminate against women with children.

Many job offers are under the age of 35 and 30. So now, let's calculate, six years later, we went to primary school, 65,438+02 years old, junior high school plus six years old, 65,438+08 years old, university four years old, 22 years old, and working three years old. The countryside is an old maid, and all the stressed women are married and have children. It's okay for the first child to go to work If someone is taking care of the baby at the age of 26-27, you can still let go. By this time, enterprises have discriminated against people aged 26-27.

You can still work hard. After giving birth, you won't sleep well and get sick for the first three years unless the child is not given to him. The child has been in kindergarten for three years, and some parent-child activities have to take time off from time to time. The company said no problem. It's hard to say it's still fierce competition. Your job has been taken away. If you change your job again, you will be 29, almost 30. Embarrassed age, and poor family conditions make it difficult to start a business. So either take the baby to work alone. Either the family conditions are good, please hire a nanny and give it to the elderly. But not every family can do this. So many mothers come out three years after giving birth to their babies and find themselves out of touch with society. Therefore, as an enterprising and hardworking woman, she always remembers to learn not to be divorced from society and find a way out as soon as possible.

If the first child is normal, the second child really needs to be full-time. In a family of two children, many people say why they want to have children. So many people choose not to have children. And many people have a second child for various reasons. Don't you want to have one? So there are many stay-at-home mothers around for various reasons. Take care of the children before they go to kindergarten, pick me up after they go to kindergarten, and take them to see them when they are sick. Primary schools need tutoring. Maybe junior high school and high school all live on campus, and women have no work to do when they come out. There are many handicrafts here. But because of instability, fewer people can say that their work is manual labor, which means they are full-time mothers. In a word, in a word. Children will feel insecure about stay-at-home mothers, which is a biased education.

Stay-at-home mothers have high salaries and no wages. In fact, it is bitter, otherwise you will earn more or less at work. If the country wants a three-child policy, it really hopes that more preferential policies from stay-at-home mothers can finally solve this problem.

Personally, I think a full-time wife should be well-off, and ordinary people can only be regarded as full-time treasure mothers. This is an information age. As long as you don't want to be out of touch with society, there is always a way to keep up with the trend. People are divided into three or six classes, and so are full-time wives. Different circles lead to completely different results.

Full-time wives test the mother's mentality, and children with good mother's mentality are more confident. Therefore, if a man wants a happy family, he must first love his wife. Children who grow up in a happy family are more sunny and confident.

Children's self-confidence has little to do with full-time.

It is a fact that stay-at-home wives are out of touch with society. There is no reason.

Do you have confidence? If you are not confident, how can you bring confidence to your child?

Disadvantages of being a full-time wife: it will make women ugly, make women unhealthy and make women have no dignity. Kids will hate you, too.

The worst result is being abandoned by men.

I wish all confident full-time wives happiness forever, be good full-time wives, train their children to be full-time wives or full-time husbands, and be happy forever.

Before the child was three years old, he was busy with children and housework all day and had no time of his own. I have no time to go out. I do housework every day except children. Without a job, you will naturally be out of touch with society and live a very wronged life.