Is mother-in-law and daughter-in-law culture a unique traditional culture in China? Do foreigners pay attention to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not a unique traditional culture in China. It still exists abroad, but the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is more serious than that abroad. In all the families in China, almost all families will face the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes women vulnerable to injustice in the family, and at the same time makes men sandwiched between their mothers and wives, making it difficult to be human. However, it is worth noting that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is rare abroad, and it can even be said that foreign mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have good feelings.

1. The fundamental reason for the great gap between the traditional culture of China and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law abroad is that the traditional cultures of the two places are different, so we attach importance to China? Filial piety? And then what? Righteousness and foreign countries attach importance to family blood and feelings. China ancient letters? Zhu Dexiao first? Here? Filial piety? Mainly refers to the filial piety to parents, which makes China people generally choose to live with their parents after marriage. You know, there is a certain generation gap between young people and old people, which is prone to contradictions. Compared with China people, foreigners are more open-minded and free-minded, which makes the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law much less.

Second, the imbalance between men and women is patriarchal? Our feudal thoughts can be said to have penetrated into the hearts of most of the older generation, because this relationship makes some mother-in-law look down on her daughter-in-law from the bottom of her heart and naturally make things difficult for her. More importantly, some areas have regulations on accepting bride price, which makes many men have to pay high-priced bride price to marry their wives. On the issue of money, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are unhappy about it, so it is easy to have conflicts between them.

Third, the issue of family values. In a family, both the mother-in-law and the wife have sex, and they are all women. As women, family values are relatively heavy, and they always strive for the size of the family. But after all, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are people of two eras, and there is always a little gap in thought, so they will naturally quarrel.