How to treat Chinese communication?

China people's communication, to put it bluntly, is people-to-people communication. China is a big human society, which stresses connections, worldly wisdom and politeness.

For a simple example, a newly graduated college student, if his family is well-off, his parents are well-connected, or his relatives and friends run a company with well-connected people, will naturally create many convenient conditions for his employment after graduation, and his employment opportunities will be better than many other students.

This example is a typical human sentiment in China, which is a kind of Chinese communication and exists in the society.

For another example, if you work in a company, the interaction with your colleagues is naturally equal. I'll pay for the meal. It's your turn to pay the bill next time. If your colleague's parents are sick, you will also buy some gifts to visit the hospital. If your colleague gets married, you will naturally pay for it. If these problems happen to you, I believe your colleagues will repay you in the same way.

No matter colleagues or friends, all friendships and exchanges are based on mutual benefit. Courtesy is reciprocated. In this kind of relationship between you and me, China people unconsciously weave a big net, and everyone has such a big net around them, China's big net of human feelings.

Every family has many relatives. Seven aunts, classmates, friends, friends of relatives, friends of neighbors, parents of children's classmates, friends introduced by colleagues, and people from all walks of life may all have such a network of contacts. When you face difficulties and problems in life, Chinese interpersonal relationships will make you much more convenient. Reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles and detours.

In fact, on the whole, Chinese communication, even on the basis of mutual benefit, does bring a lot of convenience to our work and life. Since it is beneficial to our life, we should advocate it.