How to treat those weak people with a very reasonable look?

I remember there was a hot article about children's shoes, entitled "I don't want to socialize anyway". This article really broke the common crux in the field of social marketing, and many children's shoes that suffered from it are estimated to be cold. Looking at the comments forwarded by a group of friends in the circle of friends, combined with tucao, is simply "the annual case collection of the World Institute of Human Abnormal Behavior".

As the saying goes, you can't be too loyal to Party A, because other people's leaders are engaged in social marketing, but it's a pity that it's still Party B. Party A, who doesn't engage in personnel with soft sister's money, basically constitutes more than 80% of the content of pillow talk. But after she complained, I always risked kicking myself on the bed and kneeling on the keyboard, and made an outspoken suggestion: don't just cry for the index of 90 points, first see if what I made can reach 60 points.

Socialization is just a microcosm. Take my media industry as an example. After years of harassment, "Wolf Coming" really suffered a technical shock and began to cry around in the "cliff-like landslide". If you look closely, it is often the idle people who are left unattended on weekdays who shout the most. They are determined to achieve something, or insist on the truth of the news, so they have no time to nag. Put up a banner and lie down to enjoy the cool. See such a person, just laugh it off.

I will quote a sentence on many occasions. It can even be said that after the stability of the three views, this sentence determines my daily way of doing things and also affects my basic judgment on the world. Teacher Wang Xiaobo said that all human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence.

When everything goes wrong, it is cowardice to look for external causes first. It is a mature attitude to seek for yourself instead of doing something wrong.

Although Party A has unreasonable demands, it has its difficulties in its position. How to use ability and knowledge to bridge the position difference is a lesson that social practitioners, especially Party B, must take. ..

The traditional media has obviously declined, but the decentralized network environment provides more possibilities for individuals. A while ago, I was invited to participate in Tencent's activities and shared a room with Shen Bajun of "Ba Shen Film and Television Circle". During the two-day trip, he didn't attend a formal dinner. In order to write the official number, he only relied on his own dry food to satisfy his hunger. This spirit of "doing things by yourself" impressed me deeply. The night before he left, he stayed up all night just to catch a hot spot.

As a traditional media person, I am also wary when I see other people making their lives public. The current bottleneck is even bad, perhaps just not working hard enough. And most people's efforts are far from reaching the stage of spelling talent. It's no good doing this and that, but it's just arrogance.

Recently, I often feel that the world is too vast and there are too many things to do. In front of the universe, a little worry is really nothing. Whether the income is owed or the long-cherished wish is hard to pay, it must be solved by hard work in essence. Some dreams will come true, some hopes will fail, but what you pay will always reflect yourself in a wonderful way at a certain moment.

When you encounter a problem, turn around and escape, and put the blame on others. Times have changed, and the road of life has certainly become narrower and narrower. Even if there is nothing now, what is there to be afraid of? Anyway, I'm still young, and I still have a long way to go without much money to do anything.

You might as well be positive, find something valuable, and go ahead regardless of difficulties and dangers. Time will give you the answer. I'm scared when I'm scared. Before you know it, you start crying and complaining. If you are weak, you are right. This has never been one of the operating logics of the cruel world.

I saw an answer in Zhihu, which is particularly appropriate here: the so-called fate is the excuse of the weak, and luck is the humility of the strong.

It's interesting to see the world like this. WeChat official account: Fu Kick Kick WeChat ID:futeeetee.