I am too traditional and not open, which leads to mental illness.

First of all, I think the key to your problem lies in your lack of self-confidence rather than your lack of development and tradition. In fact, confident women are the most beautiful, and things are rare. Maybe open girls are eye-catching, but as wives, more people will choose traditional girls. Your husband is a normal person. It's normal to see more beautiful women. All you worry about is being overtaken by others. Self is very important, which is what you lack. There is also that men can't rely on what they say, and the more they say, the easier it is to rebel. It's easy to go against you It's a matter of self-esteem. Try it yourself. Let it go. If it is really a psychological problem, then at most it is inferiority complex and lack of confidence in yourself. Find what you are interested in, cultivate your interest, and divert and distract yourself from this aspect. When you are in ecstasy. The beauty of concentration is the most attractive. Most people, here are some suggestions for you. Try to keep yourself busy, give men some space appropriately, and don't push too hard, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Of course, if you are in a bad mood, remember to relieve stress, vent more and release more. After that, people will relax and be comfortable. You can also try to look at the problem from the third angle, and you will see it more clearly. After all, as a party, the vision of seeing things has great limitations. For your reference!

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If you want to adjust your state of mind, you can learn some meditation, and the effect is very good. Can eliminate negative emotions in people's hearts. Soothes and purifies the soul. Let your heart become calm. Or do something that interests you, get yourself involved, and forget about yourself can achieve similar results. People are sometimes easily fascinated by the authorities, and it is easy to see things because of emotions and feelings. Try to look at the characters in this matter from an outsider's point of view. Your mind will naturally relax a lot. For your own reference.