Taboos and notices of getting married for three days

Taboos and notices of getting married for three days

Three-day marriage is taboo. When getting married, every place has its own traditional wedding taboos and stresses. Some places pay more attention to it, the content is more complicated, and some places are not very particular. Let's take a look at the taboos and pressures of getting married for three days and related statements.

Taboos and notices for three days of marriage 1 1. Taboos and notices for three days of marriage

1. Newcomers are not allowed to meet before marriage, but they can make phone calls because the network is still very developed. This is a traditional custom in China. If they meet three days before their wedding, it may mean that the marriage is unlucky. In fact, newlyweds and parents will pay attention to it.

Newlyweds are not allowed to go out three days before the wedding. It is said that it is for safety reasons to prevent some bumps after going out, which will affect the normal wedding. During these three days, couples can have a good rest, then adjust their state and greet the wedding in the best and most spiritual state.

Don't change your hair three days before the wedding. If a girl has long hair, don't cut it into short hair casually, otherwise it may not match well that day and affect the overall effect.

Second, the taboo and pressure on the wedding day.

(1) avoid getting married in the ghost month, that is, in July of the lunar calendar.

(2) avoid getting married in June of the lunar calendar, that is, being a wife for half a month.

(3) When installing the bed, put the bed in the correct position and avoid facing the sharp corner of the desk closet or any object.

(4) After the bed is fixed, until the eve of the wedding night, the prospective groom should avoid sleeping alone in the new bed, and can find a big zodiac to sleep with underage boys, such as Long Xiao.

(5) On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who take part in the engagement are not allowed to fan, otherwise it means breaking up!

After the wedding reception, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise it means remarriage.

(7) The clothes and dresses worn by the bride on the wedding day should not have pockets, so as not to take away her family's wealth.

(8) When a bride becomes a monk, the more she cries, the better. The more she cried, the less she cried.

(9) On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, all aunts and sisters-in-law should avoid seeing her off. Because "ancient" and "ancient" are homophonic, "Sao" and "Sao" are homophonic, which is unlucky.

(10) On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding motorcade, it is called "beaming", which will offset each other's blessings, so it is necessary for the matchmakers of both sides to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers to resolve it.

On the wedding day, no one is allowed to touch the new bed before going to bed at night, and the bride is not allowed to touch the bed that day.

(12) On the wedding day, the bride can't lie down, otherwise she will be ill in bed all the year round.

(13) Because children cry easily, they should be forbidden to enter the wedding auditorium, because it is unlucky to cry in the auditorium.

(14) When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and cross it.

(15) If the zodiac is a tiger or a widow, they are not allowed to watch the ceremony or enter the new house.

(16) The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, which will make her feel ashamed of her husband.

(17) On the day of mothering, newlyweds must leave their parents' home before sunset and never spend the night at their parents' home. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately, so as not to bump into their parents, which is unlucky.

(eighteen) within four months of marriage, avoid attending any wedding, funeral and celebration.

Taboos and notices of getting married for three days II. Taboos and notices of getting married for three days

1. Although the network is very developed now, as a traditional custom in China, since you can't meet before marriage, you can't send messages by phone. If two people meet three days before marriage, it means that their marriage is not so auspicious, so both husband and wife and parents should pay special attention.

2, three days before the wedding, the couple had better not go out. This is for safety reasons, because it is inevitable that there will be bumps after going out, which will affect the wedding process. Have a good rest at home, stay indoors, adjust your state to the best state and welcome the wedding.

Three days before the wedding, neither of them should change their hair styles or do their hair. You said that if it is long hair, don't cut it short, otherwise the short hair on the wedding day will not fit well, which will affect the overall makeup effect. The above is an introduction to the taboos and pressures of getting married for three days, hoping to help everyone.

Second, why can't I change the sheets after getting married for a month?

1, most people will use big red quilts and sheets when they get married, so they can change them according to their own preferences after the wedding. There is no saying how long the couple's sheets can get married, because they are all new sheets, so few people change them in a short time after marriage. After all, it is necessary to maintain a festive atmosphere at this time.

There is no doubt that people come and go when getting married, and there is dirt on the sheets. Therefore, it is entirely up to the husband and wife to decide whether to clean the sheets after marriage.

In China's traditional thought, marriage symbolizes the beginning of a new life. Everything needs updating, and the sheets are no exception. If the elders at home believe this, there is no need to argue with them too much, so as not to make the elders unhappy. And if the married life is unhappy in the future, it will inevitably make people think of it.

Taboos and precautions for three days of marriage 3 The bride's sister-in-law should avoid it on the wedding day.

On the day of a woman's wedding, all relatives and friends can send the bride out, but the bride's aunt should avoid it, because "aunt" is homophonic with "orphan" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweep". Loneliness is loneliness. Everyone knows that there is a word called "sweeping out the door", which means unlucky, so the bride's aunt should avoid it on the wedding day.

The bride will cry on the wedding day.

When a woman marries, she leaves home, and then her husband's family. After she marries her in-laws, she will serve her in-laws, and she can't be as headstrong as before. It is inevitable that she will be sad at the thought of leaving her parents and brothers and sisters. In some rural areas, women's marriage is called "crying marriage". The more the bride cries, the better, because crying means "the more she cries, the more she gets home."

Avoid eating wedding cakes.

Wedding cake is a symbol of happiness. The custom of distributing wedding cake is intended to share the joy of the wedding and convey the news of the wedding to every relative and friend through the wedding cake. The man usually sends the wedding cake to the woman's house, but the bride must not eat the wedding cake, which symbolizes the joy of eating her wedding.

Avoid sending pregnant women.

On the wedding day, pregnant women can't send them off when the bride goes out, because in ancient times, people thought that pregnant women symbolized lotus flowers and seeing them off would bring bad things to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid them when the bride gets married. Pregnant women are not suitable to appear in the wedding procession, which is not good for the bride or the pregnant women themselves.

Avoid marriage. You can't get married

If the yellow calendar says that marriage is forbidden on that day, then that day is not suitable for holding a joint banquet. I believe parents will also remind you of this. Although everyone thinks that these things are a bit feudal, we still have to respect each other when we meet, so it is best not to be on this day.

China people have so many complicated steps before getting married, one is because of the sense of ceremony, and the other is to get blessings. So choose a good day, which is also the way you reap the blessings, and you reap the blessings of life.