Why do parents in China always pin their expectations on their children?

Since ancient times, China has a tradition of looking forward to her son's success and her daughter's success. It is because of this tradition that China's parent-child relationship is one of the most filial relationships in the world. China has a long history and thousands of years of civilization, mainly experiencing a self-sufficient natural economy. Farmers in China are fed up with the oppression of landlords in the old society. Therefore, for most people, it is particularly important for children to honor their ancestors, realize their unfulfilled ideals and leave the life facing the loess and facing the sky. This is not only an expectation for children, but also an expectation for their continued life.

1. For modern people, most parents can't completely break away from tradition, so the idea of wanting to be a dragon is still deeply branded on their parents.

2. The economic development of our country has a great reaction to parents. Modern parents should not only do their job well, but also face the pressure of high mortgage, high pressure, high medical care and high education. They don't want their children to bear the same pressure as themselves, so they will pin their good hopes on their children. Generally speaking, most parents are a manifestation of their inability to achieve wealth freedom.

3. Of course, for many people who realize wealth freedom, they don't want the class to solidify, and they want their children to stay in the elite class, so it will also increase the pressure on their children, thus better protecting the reputation, status and wealth of their own class.

4. China's parents pay attention to filial piety, so the parent-child time is particularly long. Many parents are conscious parents, so they like to impose their will on their children.

5. Children in China don't live independently like children over 0/8 years old abroad, and their sense of independence is weak, including the social atmosphere that emphasizes children's independence is not strong, which leads parents to "worry" about their children. Since they have to "worry", they will attach their ideal appearance to their children.

For children, we must first respect and care for our parents. After all, no one's parents are bad to their children. Secondly, we should strengthen communication with parents, lead them to see the world, understand the world, especially the new world and new things, and discuss with them. What kind of life and future, what kind of career is worth looking forward to?

Thirdly, children should not blindly abandon the expectations and pressure from their parents, but should prove their strength as soon as possible, and no longer need their parents' "worry". You should know that parents' worries about their children are not defined by your age, but by whether you can be independent and self-reliant.

Finally, I think that children who have the ability to establish good family relationships are more likely to handle other relationships in this society.