Is it really inappropriate for people with different views to be together?

If people with different views are forced together, there should be no good result. Unless one of them changes his point of view and agrees with the other, there may be a good result. I fell in love with my ex-boyfriend before because our three views were really inappropriate. We talked about quarrels almost every day, and I broke up when I couldn't stand it. When I fell in love with him, I knew that his family conditions were not particularly good, but he was a very hard-working person, so I liked him very much and stayed with him, regardless of the opposition of all my friends around me.

He is a very clever man in life. We have to think about going out to eat together for a long time, and I will also consider that he doesn't have much money in the early stage and often rushes to pay the bill. Finally, every time I go out to eat, he will feel at ease and let me pay the bill. Even on my birthday or when I visit him in his city, I will book a hotel with my own money. I was stupid at that time and thought he was a very nice person.

Until there was a serious problem with our three views. For example, I like short hair and think summer is super cool. He thinks the girl's short hair is ugly. Like a man, like watching anime, but he thinks I am like a child, especially naive. I like flowers. He thinks it's easier for me to buy dried flowers because the flowering period is short. I think two people have different views, as long as they respect each other. The point is that he always likes to take care of me and me.

After talking about this relationship, I suddenly found that I must find a suitable one, not a question of money, but a question of economic foundation. When your education level and understanding of things reach a certain level, your three views are sometimes inexplicably similar, so the spiritual level is very important, and there is really no way to go to the end.