Woman to buy a house by parents and sister-in-law obstruction, is not trying to suck the daughter's blood?

Woman's house purchase was blocked by her parents and sister-in-law, was she trying to suck her daughter's blood?

Only that's a possibility.

Why do we immediately think of "vampire parents"?

Let's take a look at the situation. There are parents and a sister-in-law, so where did the brother go? That's unusual!

The old axiom of "everything happens for a reason" has helped us to imagine the situation

You're the bloodsucking parents!

It's easy for us to quickly categorize this kind of thing as patriarchal parents trying to fatten up their sons by emptying out their daughters, based on our past experiences and perceptions.

But we also know that there are no absolutes, and since all we know so far is that "the parents and sister-in-law stopped it" and "the father issued a warning to break off the relationship", and we haven't seen any other information about the parents' demands on the daughter, we can only say that it's possible.

Why would there be "vampire parents"?

Because there are children who can be blood-sucked, otherwise why would there be "vampire parents"? To be more specific: adult children who are cooperating with their parents by letting them suck their blood.

You're going to suck in your breath and think I'm too cold-blooded to be a coolie!

Actually, we all know that in a relationship, one person, A, has to have an influence on another person, C, or control that C, and A can't achieve that without C's cooperation.

You say I'm a fool, I don't take your words at face value, your words won't have an effect on me.

If I take it in, and I act out in some way for that statement, or fight back or get angry or self attack, then I am cooperating with you and allowing you to have an effect on me.

So how do you deal with a parent's bloodsucking behavior?

Star Mao Xiaotong gave us a very good lesson very early on:

Originally, in a program, Mao Xiaotong's father opened his mouth to ask for 50 million yuan, and directly threatened Mao Xiaotong, with the moral abduction of his own daughter, the cold blood of this father is chilling, a father who has never done his part to see his daughter red, and suddenly a lion's share of the money to be The fact that this is a father who has never been responsible for his daughter's success and has suddenly asked for so much money is something that remains to be considered.

Why did Mao Xiaotong's father go on TV? It was because Mao Xiaotong refused to go along with her father's demands.

Later, I read online that Mao Xiaotong was supporting her father, but instead of accepting 50 million dollars directly, she chose to give each other 5,000 dollars a month. 5,000 dollars is just a drop in the bucket for Mao Xiaotong, but her father didn't give her the care she deserved as a child, so doing so was the biggest responsibility.

How do we save ourselves when the parents in our family are "vampire parents"?

First: Since there is no way to change them, try to change yourself.

The relationship between my parents and I sometimes became "incompatible", and they had a big temper, and they would immediately yell at me for disagreeing with them; and then I tried to change their temper, and the way they handled things. I tried to change their temperament and the way they dealt with problems, but I realized that their character had followed them all their lives, and was so deep-rooted that it was hard to change.

So I learned to change myself, since there is no way to change you, I change myself; I no longer clash with them head on, what they say is what they say, I do not listen, and do not answer, when they are quiet, then I will speak.

Second: If you can't stand it, then stay away.

If you meet vampire parents, then stay away from them.

It is distance that creates beauty, and keeping a sense of distance will ease your relationship.

If they are desperately trying to squeeze you, then live far away and move out from your own home; if you are married and have your own family and they still want to squeeze you, then stay away and come back home less often; and give them money for the conflicts and quarrels that can be solved with money.

The parents who gave birth to you, even if there is no affection, I, as a child, will support you when you are not able to support yourselves.

I hope my answer can help you.