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What are the characteristics of China's parents?

(a) mold manufacturing type:

Many parents hold this kind of education. Such parents are self-righteous and always think that their ideas can't be wrong. They always think that they love their children for their own good. The requirements for children are extremely strict, and there are detailed instructions for children's gestures, from living habits, scope and methods of activities, to the scope and methods of reading, hobbies, and even the choice of college entrance examination majors and the type of graduation work.

(2) Greenhouse cultivation type:

With the improvement of economic conditions and the decrease of the number of children, parents have more ability and energy to educate and cultivate their children. It is a common practice for parents born in difficult times to give their children the best learning and growth conditions and make up for their childhood deficiencies.

(3) Hard pressing type

This pattern often appears in children's reading process. There must be a contradiction between the sociality of education and the particularity of individuals. Under the current situation, higher education and high school education are not popular, and the employment rate of college students is very low, forcing parents to put forward too harsh requirements for their children, so that their children can go to prestigious schools and have a good teaching future. Even if the school can reduce the burden, parents may not necessarily let their children reduce the burden. Even primary school students' homework, parents require their children to complete two sets and three sets. The pressure of survival faced by schools and the pressure of assessment faced by teachers have also made the burden reduction of schools a bubble.

(D) types of economic stimulus

Material society, the way to create material, all centered on economy, and the educational model has been industrialized. Many parents' education methods are also "money first"! In many families, the number of awards, the top ten before the exam and the number of awards have become a system! In particular, parents in a huge work force basically use money to "remotely control" their children.

(5) Primitive grazing type

This model often appears in working families or problem families. Parents are too busy working to pay attention to their children, or their marriage breaks down and they don't care about their children at all. Of course, there are also realistic parents who think that reading is useless, that children may not be admitted to universities, that they may not be able to find jobs after graduation, that they can make a lot of money without studying, and that they may even become gangsters in the underworld, and that they can also "get ahead"! Let it die!

(6) Self-produced radish type

Beauty is in the eyes of lovers, beauty in the eyes of lovers, and genius in the eyes of parents. Their children are excellent and slightly outstanding, and they are geniuses in the eyes of some parents. Even if it is not good, it will be bad for other children, teachers and schools, and society. Their children will never be bad!

(7) Advocating violence:

There are also some parents who advocate solving problems by force. Especially when children are naughty and disobedient, many people are angry and add their fists to their children. It is difficult to eliminate the bad influence of psychological shadow, rebellious psychology and advocating violence to solve problems when you grow up. Children who are set up by violence are either particularly rebellious or particularly cowardly, but they have one thing in common, that is, children who grow up in this environment rarely do not advocate solving problems by force.