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What are the wedding taboos to pay attention to

What are the wedding taboos

[Auspicious Day - Taboo]

Try not to choose the ghost month (seventh month of the lunar calendar).

Try not to choose the sixth month of the lunar calendar, there are halfway couples.

Try not to choose the third month of the lunar calendar, which coincides with the Qingming Festival.

Try not to choose the day of Yang Gong's death anniversary and the day of San Niang's death.

Try not to choose a day that is in conflict with the bride and groom's genus.

Try not to choose Yang Gong Jubilee Day and the Sanniang Siren Day as much as possible not to choose the day of the birthday of both parents.

Relative brothers and sisters try to get married in different years.

[The word "happy" - the taboo]

The word "happy" can not be pasted upside down, and must be firmly affixed, do not fall.

In case of falling, do not re-posted, there is the meaning of the second marriage happy word to be in pairs to paste, single door on the front and back of the paste.

If there are other people on the door of the neighborhood, do not pull down with a slightly larger word of joy to cover up, meaning joy on joy.

Happy words do not tear immediately after the wedding, the neighborhood of happy words and other natural shedding on the good, happy words in the house, such as does not affect the use of the best to wait 1 month before tearing.

Men's home from the outside to post the word of joy, women's home the opposite from the outside to post, referring to the community in accordance with the door - > gate - a living room - > > the order of the new room to post the women's home in reverse.

[Wedding room layout - speak of taboos]

Wedding room should not be placed in the scissors and other sharp objects, there is the meaning of quarrel.

Wedding room should not be planted climbing plants, there is the intention of cheating wedding room should not be placed in the wine glass, there is a "long sad" meaning.

The wedding bed should be placed against the wall in the right place, and not with the corner of the table and other sharp corners opposite.

The wedding bed should not be opposite the bathroom and mirror.

Wedding bed bedding are best new.

Long lamps should not choose black, white, should choose red.

One day before the wedding, it is best to find a full-fledged person to make the wedding bed full-fledged person refers to the parents are alive, the children are full, the husband and wife are in good health of the female elders.

[Pre-wedding - Taboo]

On the day of engagement, it is not advisable to fan the umbrella, which is meant to break up the marriage.

All bride price and wedding gifts should be in even numbers, which means good things come in pairs.

Before the wedding, the groom should not sleep alone in the wedding bed.

1 night before the wedding you need to find a boy or the groom's brother to press the bed.

[Clothing - taboo]

The bride of all dresses should not have pockets, so as not to take away the bride's family fortune of the new wedding all clothes, jewelry and shoes, preferably brand new wedding dresses and Chinese dresses and coats can only be worn once, back to the door can not be worn back to the door door to avoid choosing a black and white, grey and blue-colored gowns.

[Wedding car - taboo]

The number of wedding cars should be an even number, such as 1 + 3, 1 + 5 or 1 + 7.

Wedding cars can not be empty, each car should be seated.

Wedding cars do not go back, otherwise there is not long meaning.

Try to go flat, spacious road, meaning smooth and happy.

Wedding car routes should try to avoid the court, the prosecutor's office, police stations, hospitals, funeral homes and other places.

Traveling in the other wedding car fleet, you can set off firecrackers or by the bride threw out a red handkerchief, meaning "happy".

If the funeral car, you can open the sunroof to throw food or coins.

[Pick up relatives - taboo]

Pregnant women, wearing mourning should not pick up relatives, but also unsafe.

The number of male relatives should be an odd number, go single back to double.

Pick up and drop off the family "aunt not, aunt not send, sister-in-law not send because of the harmonic "lonely, doubt, sweep".

The bride should not step on the threshold of her in-laws' home when she enters, but should step over it.

[Tea ceremony - taboo]

Tea cups should be avoided.

The tea cups of jujube, lotus seed should not be cut.

Toasting tea with both hands in the middle and lower part of the cup, hands do not rest on the mouth of the cup.

Seven minutes full when pouring tea is good, that is, "seven tea and eight wine.

[Wedding day - taboo]

The day in addition to the bride and groom, other people do not sit or lie on the wedding bed.

When the bride leaves her mother's home, it is best to cry a - cry, meaning that the water is prosperous mother's home.

The bride should not lie down on the wedding bed before going to bed, otherwise there will be sick.

The bride should not step on the groom's shoes, otherwise there is a shy husband.

The bride should not eat the husband's family meal, or have to endure the meaning.

The bride should not eat the wedding cakes sent by the man, will eat the joy of the day try not to say "goodbye", otherwise there is the intention of remarriage in the evening the newcomers must stay in the wedding room, the newlyweds empty room is not auspicious.

[After marriage - taboo]

Newlywed 3 days after trying not to go out, if you must go out, you can put the two clothes on the wedding bed.

The bride and groom must return together.

Bring a gift, and bring a double.

The way back to the door is best to be the same as the bride and groom, and not to take two roads for three days.

The night of the return door do not stay at the bride's home, before sunset to return to the bride's home must stay at the bride's home, the bride and groom to sleep in separate rooms.

Four months after the wedding, it is best not to spend the night outside.

Four months after the wedding, it is best not to participate in other weddings and funerals.