How does traditional culture understand the feelings between men and women?

Men regard wives and concubines as wealth, and wealth is the source of support for life.

Women regard officials as their husbands, and officials are the foundation of their lives.

Wealth is used for enjoyment and loss, and officials are used for management and restriction.

Men's feelings are reflected in their consciousness of enjoying and consuming themselves, while women's feelings are reflected in being taken care of and restraining their emotions.

On the contrary, we can also see that women can't enjoy themselves without men, and men can't achieve their careers without women. Therefore, the relationship between men and women is the pursuit of balance. Once out of balance, even the best feelings, even those with children, will break up.

Traditional culture tells us that we should be kind to ourselves, respect each other, birds of a feather flock together and let nature take its course.