Father of early childhood education in China: Do you know how serious the consequences of hitting children are?

In A Study of Child Psychology, Chen Heqin regards children as equal individuals. Although children depend on adults in many ways, their personality should be respected. Contrary to the concept of "father is strict with filial piety, and law equals heaven" in China's traditional culture, he proposed that "a father should be quite polite to his children" and the relationship between father and son should be a democratic and equal friendship. Children feel ashamed. Adults should not abuse and beat children, otherwise the consequence is that children's personality development is not perfect. When these children grow up, they will treat others in the same rude way, advocating authority and superstitious violence. Such children don't know what love is, and everything is self-centered. "Everything that is good to me is not unhappy"; Those who are not conducive to us are unwilling to do it, so in the end, "the country is in danger." "

The child really has a sense of shame. The more you beat him and scold him, the more rebellious he is, especially in the child's adolescence. Therefore, when a child makes a mistake, the first reaction is not to hit him, but to convince others with virtue and reflect on whether he has done something wrong. Just like my child, when he was first taught to learn Chinese characters, he was also disobedient and tore up books. what can I do? I can't call any more. I have to reflect on whether my method is wrong. Later, I heard that the current literacy software is very good, especially cats. Small. Very handsome. study Han. Chinese characters can still be used freely, so I downloaded one and found that children really love learning. Because of the combination of learning task and adventure task, he likes this adventure task very much, and he is also very happy to play with many characters in fairy tales, so he also has the motivation to learn. Now the child has learned a lot of Chinese characters and will tell me fairy tales, so he can be obedient. Therefore, sometimes the method is the most important.