How do you deal with an old, wild, meddlesome, even irrational generation? For example, if you don't find someone when you're old enough to get married, you will.

It seems like you've been forced into marriage many times.

No matter what the older generation's thoughts are, we later generations have to understand that their central idea is good, hoping that we can live better and better.

They have experienced too much, for example, they said that they should look for a partner when they are about the same age, this is their mother and father to instill down the idea, of course, more is based on the external pressure, because everyone is like this, they do not want to be taken by other people as the object of discussion, no matter in the countryside or in the city, this kind of thinking is the older generation naturally inherited down.

What we, the younger generation, have to do is very simple:

First: first of all, understand the elders' good intentions. Put yourself in their shoes and talk to them, and they will be less pushy in their urging.

Second: Give them a promise, such as I will get married within 2 years, or something that gives the elderly something to look forward to.

Third: you are within a few years to enhance their own good, good work, the boy is best to save a little more money, the girl is not too generous, after all, they earn money to be more to see the focus.