What do you mean by "three free, three solutions and three excellent"

Three gifts, three solutions and three advantages are an expression in ancient wedding etiquette, which is used to describe all kinds of gifts, explanations and preferential treatments people make in marriage, funeral and other ceremonies.

1. the meaning of "three gifts"

1. bride price: in the marriage ceremony, the groom needs to give gifts to the bride to show sincerity and goodwill. These gifts are usually gold and silver jewelry or other valuable items to show the wealth and sincerity of the family.

2. betrothal gifts: in the marriage ceremony, the groom needs to send someone to the bride's house to send betrothal gifts to show respect and recognition. The content of the bride price is usually related to local customs and the economic situation of both families, which can be food, cloth, coins and so on.

3. Farewell: During the funeral ceremony, relatives and friends need to send farewell gifts to the deceased to express their thoughts and condolences. Farewell gifts can be wreaths, paper money, etc., or items that the deceased loved before his death.

Second, the meaning of "three explanations"

1. Solve doubts and problems: In the marriage ceremony, the groom needs to answer the questions of the bride's family to dispel their doubts and confusion about the bride's marriage. These problems are usually related to married life, property and so on.

2. Take off your clothes: In the wedding ceremony, the groom needs to personally untie the red scarf on the bride's head and help her take off her wedding dress, which symbolizes the new stage of their life.

3. dispel doubts: during the funeral ceremony, relatives and friends need to appease the grief and anger of the families of the deceased and give them comfort and support to help them tide over the difficulties.

Third, the meaning of "three excellences"

1. Good fortune and honor: In the marriage ceremony, the groom needs to lead the bride into the new home and give her noble status and a happy life.

2. Be tolerant and helpful: In the marriage ceremony, the groom needs to treat the bride with tolerance and help, support each other and grow together.

3. Preferential treatment and gifts: During the funeral ceremony, relatives and friends should give preferential treatment and care to the families of the deceased, including providing certain material help and participating in the burial.