How to grasp the feudal traditional etiquette and the open thought of modern society?

It is normal. Just a little ambiguous. You think too much.

Maybe because of your family or growing environment, you are more traditional. But with the opening of society, you are a little at a loss. In fact, you like openness in your heart, but some things are still bound by traditional ideas. I don't know what to do, do I?

Keep pace with the times! Society is progressing. Times are progressing. Of course, our concept should also be progressive. According to ancient feudalism, if a woman's hand was touched before marriage, no man would want it. Now, hehe ... Right? So we are all making progress.

Grasp the scale. The traditional yardstick should be a moral boundary. This boundary is different in everyone's mind. If you are a minor now, just keep good friendship. There is nothing wrong with ambiguity. Don't tie yourself down too much. Just don't go too far. If you are an adult, just follow your own moral bottom line. If you don't know what your bottom line is, then you can look at your friends around you.

Don't be too rigid. If you are too rigid in such a society, you will only show your affectation. I wish you a bright future