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This is a traditional marriage.

Five typical marriage patterns in China, which are the five most common marriage patterns that I have summarized from years of consultation. Let's see which one you belong to.

First, partnership marriage. Two people don't feel happy, nor do they feel too unhappy. Although there will be friction between us, we are not satisfied with each other and feel that life can go on, but life is as tasteless as boiled water, with no festivals and no surprises. This is the marital status of many people.

Second, chickens fly and dogs jump. In marriage, two people always quarrel, always complain and quarrel, never give in to each other, and treat life as a child's play.

Third, the open marriage mode. In marriage, husband and wife do not always live together, and each has its own house and life. Usually, they don't bother each other. This marriage mode is more like playing house, which does not require the other party to take responsibility or bind the other party to freedom.

Fourth, shell marriage. Two people in a marriage don't quarrel, but they don't divorce. The reason for not divorcing may be the consideration of identity, image and status. Maybe you are too lazy to divorce and don't want to toss. If you don't get married, you will only feel lonely occasionally, but what if you marry the wrong person? But you are not only lonely, you still belong to yourself if you don't get married, but what if you marry the wrong person? It may drag down or even ruin your life. Marriage is never a solution to loneliness and make do. Low-quality marriage is not as good as high-quality singles. But, ah, two people don't care about each other, don't communicate with each other, sleep in separate rooms, and are purely strangers under the same roof. There is no smoke without fire in this marriage. To outsiders, their marriage is not bad.

Fifth, a happy marriage. In marriage, two people appreciate each other, cherish each other, respect each other, love each other, resonate with each other and understand each other. Both husband and wife have a strong sense of happiness, but this is the marital status of a few people. What kind do you belong to?