Are there any benefits to dating? What does it mean?

Matchmaking is one of China's traditional Chinese traditional wedding rituals Also known as matchmaking portal, pair look. Marriage etiquette. That is, in the marriage stage after the exchange of gung post, by the matchmaker contact arrangements, the two sides of the long pro face to face to discuss the marriage. The matchmaking ceremony is similar in all generations. In the old days, the men and women involved did not meet, but by the parents of the long relatives arranged. The two forms of matchmaking edit this paragraph One is by the male parents or aunt, aunt, etc., choose a day to visit the female family. The female parents usually let their daughters come out to show their faces, such as pouring tea and lighting cigarettes, and the male family members take advantage of the situation to measure the woman's appearance, body shape, physique and demeanor. In Quanzhou, Liancheng and other places, there is also the custom of looking at the woman's palm. Matchmaking watch palm is not like fortune tellers as elaborate, mysterious, usually just according to the woman's palm of the soft and hard and the thickness of the skin to determine whether she is blessed. Palm soft, tender skin is a good phase, while the bones protruding, muscle stiffness, rough skin is not blessed with a bad phase. Fujian folk also generally taboo women "broken palm" (also known as "horizontal palm", that is, the palm has a thick and deep lines from the left to the right across the center, such as the palm of the hand from the horizontal break), that this woman "hard life! ", doomed to kill her husband (men with broken palms, is regarded as the life of a big official). Another is the man himself by the matchmaker or honorary elder brought to the woman's home matchmaking, in the observation of the woman at the same time, but also accept the woman's scrutiny. However, the man and the woman do not sit down for a long talk, and the woman only shows up for a little while and then hides in the inner room again. In Zhangping, matchmaking is commonly known as "watching the bride", usually the man stands in the daping (patio), and the girl is dressed up and walks through the hall from the head of the left alleyway (side hall) into the head of the right alleyway, only for a short period of time. Meanwhile, the woman's parents and other relatives are watching the man. In Jianning, when the man came to the door for a blind date, the woman first hidden peeping, if no objection, then go out and pour tea, the man took the opportunity to glance up, if you agree, then take the tea. Regardless of the form of blind date, if the man is satisfied, will be expressed. Generally is to give the woman a small red envelope, commonly known as "meet gift", or even other members of the woman's family also have to take a ride. In places like Qingliu, the man's family will stay for a meal before leaving. In the Putian area, if a blind date eats the other party's boiled snacks - eggs, thread noodles - that is to say that they are in favor of it. In Jianyang, young men before leaving, the girl will personally bubble a bowl of sugar water to the young men to drink, if the young men to drink the bowl of sugar water, even if it is expressed satisfaction; if you drink half a bowl, said that we still have to ask the matchmaker intermediary consultations, leaving room for maneuver; if only a symbolic dip in the lips, is out of courtesy, said that do not agree with the marriage. The actual matchmaking sticker edit this section The matchmaking professional households of the matchmaking technology sticker: Creek network - perfect wedding ideas, convergence of the bride MM's advice Salar young men and women marriage is concluded, generally divided into four steps: first of all, to matchmaking. Male family fancy a family girl, then ask the matchmaker (usually male) 1-2 people to the female family to pay tribute, such as the female parents agree, and then get the girl herself and relatives uncles and uncles of the consent; second is the nadine. Secondly, after the female family agreed, the male family chose a date, but also asked the willing matchmaker to the female family to send "fixed tea", generally send a pair of earrings, a piece of clothing, Por Tea two seals, the female family to accept the fixed tea that is said to be formally agreed to, and will not be allowed to another person. In the early days, the female parents promised, but also asked the pro-uncles with the matchmaker **** eat "oil churn", eat, the matchmaker will also bring back some replies to the male family, in order to show that there will never be dissenting views; the third is to send the bride price, the Salar language, called the "Malay Ai Endeer". The male party through the matchmaker, according to the number of both sides of the words set in advance to send, the bride price of the amount, depending on the economic situation of the male family. Finally is to marry, by both men and women to choose an auspicious day (most of the gathering of Islamic rituals, that is, Friday, "the main hemp day"), please imam read "niqahai" (marriage scripture), to the wedding ceremony, the marriage will be officially recognized. Matchmaking Precautions Edit First: Dress clean, this is for sure, even if you don't dress up, your family and friends will dress you up, otherwise they won't let you go out. Second: Pay attention to the little things, because both people are strangers, so every detail will be a factor in examining each other. Third: Try to avoid money matters, for example, the other person thinks you are not grand enough or too cheap. And you still don't know what kind of person the other person is, so avoid it and try to let the third person pay the bill. Or go to the park together ah, walk ah ~ ~ does not cost the place for blind dates. Fourth: do not say dirty words Oh, bad habits of the mantra to pay attention to. Fifth: never be nervous, to have contempt for all mental, to see the other side as a paper tiger. This is standing on high ground. Psychologically have overcome each other. Sixth: Never brag to each other, cattle can be blown, when all can, but do not blow this time, blowing on the sky when the cattle fall down is very likely to smash their own. Seventh: humor, okay? When a girl meets a funny guy, she usually laughs a little and the atmosphere is less tense. Please go to the blind date before, try to remember a few healthier jokes, not yellow jokes ah, remember remember. Eighth: Note that when laughing, girls should be mischievous smile, or gentle smile, is a smile ah, do not open your mouth wide, haha maniacal laughter, that is easy to spray out of the mouth in the liquid to the other side of the face. Ninth: most men like gentle, naughty, cute girls. Girls mostly like mature, humorous, dry man. Just analyze each other by yourselves when the time comes. Tenth: meet do not love to laugh at the girl, but be careful, that is generally a blind date master ah, so the man's fake action is very easy to be found. Or the other side is a woman who is very y hurt by men. So that as far as possible to behave differently a little bit, if you like each other, may wish to come to a high degree of performance, this, it is difficult ..... There is no desire to conquer, just let go of it summarized not enough full, I hope you add more, by the way, I wish you a happy blind date, kill each other with your eyes, so that the other side is completely conquered by you ....