What if mom is too old-fashioned and traditional? She has never traveled far in her life, and she has opposed everything I do since she was a child.

First, many times it is really difficult for the elderly to identify with their children.

Parents themselves have no malice, but only consider the problem subjectively, without taking into account your feelings. Some parents, because of their limited education, find it difficult to identify with their children subjectively. There is no need to force their children to identify with you.

Second, treat the problem with a calm mind.

Many families will encounter such problems. Besides, every family has its own problems, one way or another. After all, most parents in China are paving the way for their children with great fanfare under the banner of being good to their children, thinking that they are good to their children. This is a common problem of parents in China, so it is good to treat the problem calmly.

Third, stick to your principles.

No one has any reason to force you to marry someone you don't love. Just listen to what mom said is right, and what mom said is wrong can be ignored automatically. It doesn't matter, as long as you have your own ideas and opinions, don't worry about it. It doesn't matter if you can't accept it. Just try not to quarrel with your mother.