Four essays on the experience of educating children

Speaking of children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Because the family situation is different, the education methods are different, but the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? How to cooperate with teachers to make children develop physically and mentally healthily! I have bought many books for this, such as "A good mother is better than a good teacher", "Details determine the future" and so on. As a mother, I am glad to see her little progress, but I still dare not relax. In the process of raising children, I have some experiences to share with you:

First of all, it is very necessary to develop good study habits.

From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. It should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When the child was young, she cultivated and exercised her literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for her future study. When the child is older, we will help her develop the habit of reading and let her take some time out to study every day. Whenever I get a chance, I buy books for him from the bookstore and take her to the library to read her favorite books, so that she can feel the atmosphere of reading. Gradually, children like reading and develop good reading habits, which also greatly promotes learning. And a lot of reading laid a good foundation for her future writing.

Second, communicate more and sincerely praise and encourage children.

I have heard many stories and cases of self-education of children, all of which focus on encouragement and praise, but I don't think so. It was not until something happened that I really realized the true meaning of this sentence. Children's mathematics is always so-so, and the speed of doing problems has been very slow, especially for application problems. I always get angry every time I check my math homework. Sometimes my anger can't be suppressed and I will severely reprimand her. The child hung his head and dared not speak. Once when I had a heart-to-heart talk with my child, the child said that you knew how to cultivate me, and I realized how much harm I had given my child! From then on, I corrected my attitude. I asked her to solve math problems that she couldn't do by herself in a guided way. Even if she comes up with one of the steps to solve the problem, I say you have made a lot of progress than last time. Think again. She shows a very positive attitude and knows how to solve problems. Now the application problem has improved a lot. Yesterday, I got a hundred points on the small paper. When the child showed me the test paper, I smiled with relief and deeply realized that the parents and teachers' casual encouragement would make the child successful!

Third, don't ask too much of your child, and give him some room for free development.

We have all been children, and we should know what children like. As long as you have time, you should play some favorite games with your child, such as playing chess, solve riddles on the lanterns or taking her to outdoor sports. After all, children's health is more important than anything else. To see a child's progress, don't always ask her to be as good as other children are. Children need space to grow up, and our parents need to give her more free space. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. Too much preaching is not as effective as guiding children with their own actions.

These are some of my experiences in educating children. Educating children, our parents need to learn, and we will encounter difficulties in the process of learning. This requires parents and teachers to communicate more. I believe that as long as we work together and make continuous progress in learning, children will grow up happily and become healthy, elegant, independent and sunny people!

Experience in educating children II.

I am very grateful to the school and teachers for providing this opportunity to share and discuss our most important things with our parents. "Planting trees for ten years, educating people for a hundred years." The school and each of our parents hope to cultivate their children into people who contribute to society and mankind. Analysis of a person's growth process, early childhood education is very important, which will lay a solid foundation for children to better receive education in the future. Since there is basically only one child at home now, as a "new father and new mother", we can only say that we are "crossing the river by feeling the stones", groping for learning step by step and summing up the education for our children in recent years. Although it is not comprehensive enough, I am very willing to discuss it with teachers and other parents, hoping to improve the educational methods and raise the educational level.

Every parent is eager to bring up an excellent child through his own training and education, but he often ignores that the child has his own way of growth. Under the pressure of school, employment and life, parents blindly instill worries and burdens into their children, which leads to their boredom and fear of learning, which is counterproductive. The education mode we insist on is voluntary guidance, interest-oriented, and free control of extracurricular activities under the condition of completing the most basic cultural study. Strengthen encouragement, praise and encouragement, create a free and relaxed voluntary learning environment and learning mood for children, and guide children to strengthen training in insufficient aspects.

First, love but not spoil. It is human nature that every parent loves his children. Only with the great and selfless love of parents can children develop physically and mentally. But if you love me to a certain extent and want to take me away, excessive love will become doting, which is unprincipled excessive love. For example, in material life, we can try our best to meet the needs of children's healthy growth, but we can't accommodate unreasonable demands on children everywhere. We should be reasonable and clear. Children who grow up in a doting family can easily develop all self-centered willful, bossy and stubborn bad temper and bad habits.

Second, don't take care of children too much. Every parent will take care of his baby carefully, such as normal daily cooking, which should be let the children experience and learn early. At present, most families take care of their children by the elderly, who often take care of everything from dressing to eating, resulting in poor self-care ability and social adaptability of children, which will also destroy and suppress children's curiosity and adventurous spirit, deprive them of the opportunity to stay ahead of the times and exercise their strong will to overcome all difficulties. Learn to let children do things by themselves. In the process of doing it, children will be excited about their success and proud of their experiences.

Third, pay attention to the educational function of the family. The responsibility of educating children should be shared by both parents, and no one can give up his responsibility; At the same time, mom and dad should create conditions for each other to undertake educational responsibilities, and have division of labor and cooperation in educating children, and should not unilaterally monopolize "power"; Only when parents share the responsibility for education and have a harmonious and complementary influence on their children's education can the educational function of the family be brought into full play.

Fourth, grow up with your children and be their bosom friends. In family education, parents should consciously form a good parent-child relationship with their children, treat their children as usual, be honest with them and become friends with them. Many parents may think it is beneath their dignity, but it is not. I respect her ideas, support her practices, guide her in incorrect places, and establish good communication channels with children. Educate in life, guide in games, sometimes go home from work, play games with children, and learn about their study and life while playing games with children. It is necessary to correct children's cognitive errors or deviations in time. Tell her why she is wrong, where she is wrong, how to correct it, and so on. And explain clearly, leaving no room for ambiguity. Of course, parents sometimes let their children scratch their tails. At this time, parents should face it bravely, take the initiative to admit their mistakes and set a good example for their children.

Fifth, learn to empathize and don't put too much pressure on children. When my daughter first entered school, she knew nothing, let alone what it was like to study. Usually, the exam results are not very satisfactory. As parents, we were very anxious at that time, but we didn't blame her, and we didn't assign extra extracurricular questions to force her to study, and we didn't stipulate how high she should take the exam. Instead, we should start with cultivating good study habits and remind her to listen carefully in class and not be disturbed by classmates. After school, you should first finish your homework independently. If you have any questions, look it up in the dictionary first, and don't rely on parents' guidance. Step by step, the results are gradually improving. Children are young and playful by nature. Make sure that children have enough time to play and relax and do what they like. My daughter has studied electronic piano, piano, Go, painting, drum set and vocal music. She basically chose her own, signed up herself, and studied whatever she wanted, because I really hope he is a hobby, not a burden.

Six, I think parents should take the initiative to communicate with teachers, understand their children's performance in school, and discuss possible problems and solutions during their growth. Remind the teacher not to always treat it as a complaint, as an affliction, but as a good opportunity. It's better to find the problem early than late. In order to be responsible for their children's future, parents really need to pay attention to cooperate with schools to do a good job in their children's primary education. Doing well in this respect can lay a solid foundation for the future. May every parent be proud of their children, and may every child have a bright future.

Experience in educating children 3

Life experience tells us that family education is no less important to children than school education, and even determines the development direction of children and affects their life. Time flies, it has passed 12 years in a blink of an eye, and the children have grown up day by day. From his birth to now, we have tried our best to create a democratic atmosphere and a relaxed environment in the family to educate him. At present, our family has harmonious feelings and good communication, and our children are healthy, lively and thriving.

First, educate children to communicate equally, and listening is the premise of good communication.

Many shortcomings of children can be found in parents. When educating children, we should first discipline ourselves, standardize our behavior, and influence and edify children with a good environment and example. For example, in normal times, our parents and children communicate on an equal footing and calm down to listen to everything the children have to say. Even if they are busy and tired at this time, they will listen attentively and ask their children from time to time: Is there anything interesting in school? Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.

Second, cultivate children's adaptability and behavior habits.

Instill the children with a sense of competition through the cases that happened around them. In the era of fierce competition, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and move towards the other side of success. Apart from the normal pocket money, we seldom give him money, and he will ask our permission in advance to buy anything. Sometimes, intentionally or unintentionally, we will tell our children how hard it is for adults to work outside the home and how difficult it is to make money, so that children can feel the hard work of their parents and naturally know how to cherish everything their parents have done for them.

Third, avoid paying too much attention to grades and treat children with a positive attitude.

After each test result comes out, the score is for reference only. The key is to fully understand and thoroughly understand the wrong questions. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's morality, creativity and learning ability, and ask children to listen carefully in class without interference from classmates. After school, you should first finish your homework independently. If you have any questions, look it up in the dictionary first. Don't rely on parents' guidance from junior high school. Experience the happiness when solving problems, make children very willing to learn, fully respect their nature and tap their potential. Fully affirm the advantages of children and cultivate their self-confidence.

The experience of educating children

Speaking of children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Although the family situation is different and the education methods are different, the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? I have bought many books, bought many CDs and consulted many colleagues. Children grow up day by day, and their grades are gradually stable, but I still dare not relax.

It is very necessary to develop good study habits, which should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When a child was young, he cultivated and exercised his literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for his future study. When the child is older, we will help him form the habit of reading and let him spare some time to read every day. In our family, we can often see pictures of a family of three reading books. Moreover, I will buy all kinds of books for him from the bookstore whenever I have the chance. Gifts for Children's Day and Spring Festival are all kinds of interesting or beneficial books. After a long time, children like reading. I have also developed good reading habits. It also played a great role in promoting learning.

From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. Communicate with his teacher in time to help children develop good study habits.

In family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, pack up the toys you have played, wash your face and brush your teeth before going to bed at night. Sometimes, if a child wants to be lazy, tell him the truth and tell him that it is impossible. Slowly, he recognized this behavior, and the habit naturally formed.

To educate children, our generation of parents need to learn and inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese nation. I used to feel very uneasy, that is, I didn't establish a stable and reliable overall value system to educate my children. During this period, in the process of intermittent contact with traditional enlightenment classics, I reflected on my own behavior ethics and the various manifestations of children's growth. I think I have found the clue and direction to educate my children. I need to study tradition with my children.

Don't ask too much of your child, give him some room for free development, observe his advantages and disadvantages, and then give guidance. I think we have all been children and should know what children like. Too much preaching is better than guiding children with our own actions. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. For example, when my son was watching TV, he unconsciously walked in front of the TV as soon as he saw the wonderful part. I corrected him, and he immediately reprimanded and said, "You always surf the Internet every day, and your eyes will be broken if you play for a long time." In the face of children's doubts, I have to correct myself first and influence my children with my own behavior. I said to my child, "Look, mom has corrected it, and it's only been online for a while, so you should correct it!" " At this time, the child will readily accept your suggestion.

In order to broaden our horizons and cultivate children's various interests. In his spare time, he signed up for a calligraphy class. He has been studying for several years now, and he is very interested and his grades are good.

Children like to make by hand, and I will provide them with materials and help them as much as possible. Sometimes, watching him make a "work" that is not very wonderful and show it to us smugly, his expression is full of pride. I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart to see that children dare to do things and get happiness from the process of hand-making.

In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises. If a child loves to run and jump, let him exercise more, which will not only strengthen his body, but also make him happy. Why not?

In short, we hope that the child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also hopes that he can have his own fun while studying hard and is a person who loves life.