Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional culture - Do girls need to live together before marriage

Do girls need to live together before marriage

I think it is necessary.

As a girl, I recommend girls to go to cohabitation, but must pay attention to safety, can not casually get pregnant, not to mention casually abortion, which is a lifelong damage to you. Cohabitation life, girls must must be weak, this point girls must always remember, I encourage you to cohabit, but do not want you to be hurt. Girls must have a long time to get to know each other before the idea of cohabitation. But I don't agree with those who live in a one-night stand or a casual relationship based on so-called "passion", and if that's the case, get rid of it while you still can.

But I don't recommend living together for too long. A small stay for a while when you're close to getting a license is fine. A month or even a week or two can tell so much. Some people say they can't accept cohabitation in case they break up and find another one, it's no different from a second marriage, and I'd say - what's all this logic? Obviously divorce has more to lose, right?

The ones who don't grind before marriage and then go back to grind after marriage are basically suffering! The reason you have to live together for 1-3 years before marriage is so that you can go through things together, some of the bridges that test both sides can't be acted out just by directing yourself, it takes a long timeline to go with the flow of things happening one by one.

I, or that, looking for a partner is to find a match with their own three views of the people, rather than looking for a person with their own incompatibility and then change into a match, I think a lot of things are not necessary. Like what kind of a monthly salary of 3000, hard to pretend to fill the face, this borrowing which borrowing, to live 10,000 life of people, class this thing, in the birth of everyone has been solidified. And the kind of buy a Hermes think they are upper class people, I want to tell you, people upper class people, every day to buy, your kind of year to buy a count what upper class people.

My personal opinion is : people have to pay for the things they have done, is the most fair thing in this world! It is because of cohabitation, in order to experience the real two people get along with the moment, understand what is the right person, cohabitation may also allow you to recognize each other's shortcomings in fact, you can not tolerate, which also avoids a period of wrong marriage ah, so cohabitation is actually quite necessary.