Bad relationship with father-in-law! And my husband listens to his father! How can I get my husband to be on the same page with me? Please help!

How many parents-in-law treat their daughters-in-law as their own? And how many daughters-in-law will treat their parents-in-law as their own mom and dad? Our troubles come from demanding too much from each other. Now that you are going to have your own child soon, everything is about the child, you need to have a good mood yourself so that it will be beneficial to the child, and don't live together if your father-in-law's temper cannot be tolerated. You also said that your husband is good to you, it is normal for him to listen to his father's words, after listening to the words for more than 20 years, it is not possible to stop listening all of a sudden, right? Let him have a process to adapt to you.