The old tradition is talking.

"If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer" means that the old man has more experience than you and is generally correct. If you don't listen, it will soon teach you a lesson and make you suffer, but it won't teach you to take advantage of loopholes, but tell you how to master the sense of proportion, be careful in words and deeds and behave politely.

"If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you" is an old proverb, which has been passed down to this day and is often used by many people in family education and life. But this sentence is not omnipotent, and things cannot be generalized. Some people like seniority, feel old and want to be respected by others. They are confident that what they say is right, but they only look at one thing with their own views. Some things have their own logic and truth, which can't be explained by traditional ideas.