Please ask everyone how to break through the mental barrier of holding a girl's hand and saying we are together.

There are many different techniques for chasing girls, and there are different components for different stages. David has a book called Bridge,

which breaks down the different intimate stages of dating, from striking up a conversation, to holding hands, to kissing, to undressing, and gives tips for breaking through the bottleneck

at each stage. After meeting a girl, the first stage is usually hand-holding; the second stage is kissing; the third stage is caressing; and the final stage is getting laid.

Carefully observe you will find that any one of the stages is to be physically intimate with the girl, because the interaction with the girl,

No language can not replace the physical intimacy, in the human evolution of language before, has always used body language communication;

Compared with the body to communicate, the verbal language is pale and powerless. Therefore, progressing to the stage of physical contact as quickly as possible can shorten the distance between two

people and form a substantial boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. We can usually assume that it is easier to put your arm around a girl's waist than to hold her hand

. Then if a girl accepts your hand holding, it means accepting your guidance. So holding hands in the technique of chasing girls

(1) Read the palm of your hand. Suitable for stationary scenes, such as eating, resting, waiting for a car. Reading palmistry is the most common cold reading,

can start a spiritual conversation. There are many books that teach people to read palms, and a little understanding is all that is needed to focus on the emotionally relevant lines of the relationship line and

marriage line. You can also develop palm reading to palm massage, "You have a lot of horizontal lines here, which means

you are a very sensitive body ......" and then gently touch her fingertips, finger cracks, finger roots, the back of the hand, arm, armpit and other sensitive parts.

(2) Smooth. Suitable for a variety of daily scenes, such as crossing the street, walking stairs, taking the elevator, walking in the grass, walking on uneven

roads, climbing mountains, etc.;

(3) Palm massage. Ideal for a variety of stationary scenarios, "I know that massaging an acupoint on your hand can cure a stomach ache (sore throat

, cold), and this is the gastrointestinal point (tonsil point)." A link for those of you with a serious attitude towards life, the points on the palm of your hand are divided

into cloth. In fact, most of the time blindly press on it, after pressing very relaxed and comfortable are going to feel a little bit of disease relief.

(4) the use of props on the girl's hands. For example, rings, bracelets, watches, nail polish, tattoos. "The color of your bracelet goes well with your clothes

clothes, let me see." Smoothly, he took her hand. "There's a butterfly on each of your nails, how cute!" Paying attention

to these details itself can make a girl feel that you are a very attentive and sensual man.

(5) Warm hands. Women because of physiological reasons, the palms of the hands are often cold, especially in the spring, fall and winter and morning and evening. You can

At these times, take the girl's hand and say, "Your hands are so cold. They say there are three flavors of fire in a man, and my hands have never been

cold." Then warms her hands. An example provided by Happy, "I read a story today about a girl who kept freezing her

hands in the winter, and the doctor said someone warming her hands would cure it. There was a boy who warmed her hands for an hour every day, and I don't know if it really had a healing effect or if it

touched the heavens, and her frostbite really got better. Let's try it too."

After the hand-holding breakthrough, the atmosphere is right, and you should break through to what comes next with a bang. The timing isn't right, so you can create more

suspense and anticipation and push forward when you have the chance. Once a girl has held your hand once, it's easy to hold her hand the next time.