Poetry on filial piety and love for the elderly and relatives

Filial piety and love of relatives, the basis of human

All good filial piety first, this is the eternal melody of human love, is the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation. The Tang Dynasty poet Meng Jiao has a famous line "who said that the grass heart, rewarded three spring sunshine". Filial piety is not only about filial piety to parents and in-laws, but also includes caring for those who know and don't know the elderly, honoring the elderly, loving the elderly, and helping the elderly is our duty-bound responsibility. Honor the elderly, caring for family members is the basis of human beings.

One of the parents, do everything in their power to do filial piety

Parents the same age, are nearly eighty, for our brother and sister, five people work all their lives, hard life, for the children to worry about the heart, and now they are old, the body is not good, as a son or daughter of their parents to do filial piety should be. We have five siblings, only I have a fixed job, so to my parents to see the doctor, get medicine has become my duty, although brother and sister-in-law, sister are very filial, but I always feel that their income is higher than them, for parents to pay more is right, this, my husband is also very understanding and support, so I am very touched.

My father suffered from bronchitis when he was young, and as he got older, his condition was much heavier than before, especially in winter when he coughed even more, listening to his coughing, I heard in my ears, and it hurt in my heart. Usually always love to collect some information on cough treatment, dietary supplements, medicinal supplements, acupuncture, post, as long as the treatment of bronchitis effective, at any time in my special book, consult a doctor to try to my father, colleagues laughingly called me half an expert. Every year before winter, I bought a vat of high-quality honey from a specialty store, every day to my father boiled rock sugar pear water to relieve cough; summer with my father to paste three vodka stickers. The father's cough symptoms have not only not aggravated in the past two years, but also reduced. Mother's health has always been quite good, usually even colds are rare, but three years ago suffered from cerebral leukoencephalomalacia, the physical condition of the deteriorating, limb weakness, even eating is very difficult, can not pick up chopsticks, can not carry the bowl. Gradually, she could not walk, could not stand up, although many clinics, but did not see any results, the doctor said that this is a disease of the elderly, there is no good way, now my mother can not take care of her own life, eating, living, daily life all rely on people to take care of. My mother had worked hard all her life and never wanted to trouble others, even her own children. But things are always so unpredictable, I thought that my mother, who had been in relatively good health, would eventually have to take care of my father, but who would have thought that her illness would be so serious, and that my strong mother would no longer be able to leave the care of her children. Mother is also more attached to us, always want to let her stay around for a while, sometimes the father will say they have their own things, but also day and night with you, then the mother will be like a child who has made a mistake silent, whenever this time my heart will be sour. My mother was too lonely to stay with her sick bed every day. The physical inconvenience also caused changes in my mother's heart. She became especially fragile and tearful. Whenever I see her like this, my heart is particularly sad, there are tears can only secretly flow, do not dare to let her see, but on the surface, but also have to force a smile, comforting her all right, as long as the medication on time, active treatment will be fine. The mother needs not only care, but also companionship. Since my mother got sick, I have been home at least twice a day at noon and in the evening, rain or shine. Taking care of her to take medicine, drink water, urinate and defecate, and giving her back rubs and massages. As I have to rush to my mother's place, every day at noon I am like fighting a war, rushing home from work to cook, and then rushing to my mother's place, no more leisure, no more entertainment, no more holidays, no more naps. As long as the mother can be more happy, less pain, their own hard work is also worth it, compared to the mother for the children's pay and what is it? People no matter how old they are, as long as there are two parents can still filial piety, I feel happy.

Two, depending on the in-laws, sincere as parents

Although my in-laws did not give birth to me to raise me, but they are my husband's biological parents, if you love your husband, you should love her parents, love his family, as the saying goes, into a door, is a family. Therefore, since the day I married my husband, I have honored my in-laws as if they were my own biological parents. It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to deal with, but I live with my in-laws for more than ten years, whether it is the daughter of the hour to eat and live together, or later come out to live alone, with the in-laws we have never been red-faced, not to mention the mouth, and always honor my parents to honor their parents in the heart of honoring their in-laws. My mother-in-law and I have endless things to say, neighbors say we are closer than mother and daughter. I feel that as a daughter-in-law, you have to be considerate, respectful and kind to your in-laws.

To be considerate of the elderly, you have to respect them and not argue with them. They have been on the road for decades and have formed their own views on things in the world, so we don't have to try to change them; obedience is considerate. My father-in-law passed away three years ago at the age of eighty-six. The old man was a construction worker before he retired, and he was very frugal after a lifetime of hard work and suffering, and he couldn't stand to see any waste. Even if some useless bottles and cans were thrown into the garbage, he would pick them up and reprimand the person who threw them away, and he wouldn't allow the leftovers to be poured out, always saying that he would save them for the next meal, and would get very angry if he found out that they had been poured out. At that time there was no refrigerator at home, the summer leftovers simply can not stay, pouring out the old man will be hot angry, keep the old man ate and hurt the body, for this husband and siblings siblings have not less to the father-in-law quarrel. Later, I found that the old man, although hard to stop from pouring leftovers, but can not remember what is left, so I put the leftovers in front of his face, and then secretly dumped, next time cooking will be a dish specifically less fried a little, in front of him, he ate while saying that this dish which is a little bad, but also quite fragrant, which, we will be on the side of the sneaky music. Considerate of the elderly, we must not make them angry, we have to think of making them happy, it is not difficult, as long as we put a little more thought can be done. This is also a manifestation of respect for the elderly, respect for the elderly, the most important thing is to respect their habits. In the course of decades of life, habits become nature, hard to change habits, but will happen unexpectedly, so respect is better than change.

Eighty-year-olds like urchins, the elderly sometimes have to be like coaxing children as more patience, to make them happy. My mother-in-law is the old cold legs, the day a cool or cloudy day rain pain is particularly strong, she always use the garlic hammer smash legs, sometimes the legs are smashed green, see a number of hospitals have not seen good, and then inquired about an old Chinese medicine to treat the disease effect is good, accompanied by my mother-in-law to see him a little more than forty services of traditional Chinese medicine, I look at my mother-in-law because of the leg pain at night to sleep well, so I get up early every day to give my mother-in-law to decoct the good medicine and then go to work, my mother-in-law is always painfully My mother-in-law was always distressed and said that it was not too late to wait for her to get up before decocting the medicine. I always smiled and said, "It's okay, I'm young, it's okay if I sleep a little less." My mother-in-law praised me for my filial piety, which made her sisters envy her. Filial piety and respect for the elderly is also a social virtue that can promote the harmonious development of society. Mencius said: "Everyone kisses their relatives and grows up with their elders, and the world is at peace." That is to say, "as long as everyone is dear to their parents and respects their elders, then the world will naturally be at peace.

Three, harmonious brother and sister, support each other and flesh and blood

Some people say that more siblings mess nest, especially in-laws siblings a more, there is more trouble, I do not see it this way. As the old saying goes, "fighting pro brother, on the battlefield father and son soldiers", blood is thicker than water, flesh and blood is irreplaceable, as long as we pay their own true heart, we can get the same gift. Therefore, in treating the relationship between the two sides of the siblings, I have always insisted on two principles: to treat with sincerity, can help must help; in-laws and mother's family are treated equally. If you are not even willing to help your own siblings, it is even more difficult to get along with others. Over the years, whether it is the mother's brother, or in-laws of the younger brother who has something, I always do my best to help. The child's uncle's factory closed down, there is no job, sister-in-law also has no stable job, the two are often due to the economic situation of conflict. Our sisters-in-law have been hospitalized for five or six years, during which time I have never asked them to pay for water or electricity, but have always borne the burden alone. Usually, I always buy food for them to buy together, buy a watermelon also want to half of a family. To the child to buy clothes always buy two, to my child to buy what will give the little niece to buy what. In terms of filial piety to the in-laws, I am more than not to rely on. Usually buy things for the elderly, give them the cost of living, I never in front of the two brothers and sisters-in-law, lest they feel embarrassed. Sometimes in-laws feel the same son in law, food and use all rely on our family, feel bad, said to me do not want their living expenses, you also do not give, have your father-in-law's pension we can not use. I always say that you have worked hard all your life, and you can't compromise yourselves any more, and it's our duty to raise our children for the sake of the elderly. We should do our best for the elderly, and each of us should honor our own personal piety. Filial piety can not wait, filial piety can not rely on, so that parents to spend their twilight years in peace is a human child's duty and obligation.

Four, teach children, respect for the elderly and love the old into a habit

Respect for the elderly and respect for the wise is the fine tradition of the Chinese nation, is the ancestors left us a valuable treasure. Today, we should carry forward this virtue and continue it from generation to generation. However, in daily interactions, often found that many children treat the elderly with insufficient respect. For example, they bump into the old man and disobey the discipline; they order the old man to do this and that for him in a hard attitude. Therefore, we should teach our children to respect and love the elderly from an early age. Parents should set an example and be a role model for their children. Children have superficial understanding, poor judgment ability, lack of independence, mental activities with suggestive and imitative. In their eyes, their parents' behavior is a yardstick, and they think that what their parents do, he can do; what their parents do, he should do. Therefore, I get along with the elderly (whether it is their own old man or other old people), always strive to be humble, courteous, caring, considerate, such as at home to the elderly tea and water, in the public **** occasions, to the elderly to give way. Parents' words and deeds, the children see in the eyes, remember in the heart, manifested in their own actions, they will be like their parents to treat the elderly as well. I also pay attention to the use of relevant festivals, inspiration and inducement, educate children to respect the elderly and love the elderly. For example, I use the birthday of the elderly, Chongyang Festival (Senior Citizens' Day), New Year's Day, the Spring Festival and other favorable occasions to induce good behavior through conversation, nudging and hinting. For example, ask your child, "Tomorrow is xxx day (xxx day), what should you do? How can you make grandpa (grandma) happy?" The child will then say seriously, "I'll help grandpa cut the cake and wish grandpa a happy birthday and a long and healthy life," "I'll give grandma a present," "I'll pay my respects to grandpa and grandma." ...... In the long run, the seed of honoring and loving the elderly will sprout in the children's hearts. Filial Piety and Love for the Elderly as a Human Being The virtue of honoring and loving the elderly is a light in the dark night; a fire in the cold winter; a spring in the desert; and a sweet rain in a long drought. Honor your parents, care for the elderly, regardless of time and place, and conditions have nothing to do. Love, we have to start from the immediate, is the real action; love, around us, everywhere; love, we have to say; love, no need to wait!