Luhan was criticized too "mother", what do you think is the standard of male stars "mother"?

Luhan, Cai Xukun and so on these flow of male stars were once called "mother", over time, "mother" this word has become the word we avoided, in the entertainment industry is more so, afraid and the word on the relationship. But what exactly is the definition of a "girl"? Is it long hair? Or make-up? Or is it a pretty face? But these are all external appearance, with a person's looks or dress to determine that he is "mother", this is the standard?

I. Definition of "mother"

Wu Qingfeng once said that many people laughed at him for being a "mother", but isn't "mother" the meaning of "mom"? Why should such a great word as mother be given a derogatory meaning and be used to describe a male with feminine characteristics? It seems that we have come to the conclusion that a man has to be masculine, otherwise he is not a man. In fact, celebrities being public figures, it is normal for them to wear make-up to appear in a better image. There are also those who are good-looking or have a thin voice, which is natural and cannot be changed, so should we say they are "women" just because of this?

Second, the standard of "girly"

I personally think, first of all, the word "girly" as a pejorative to criticize the male, which is wrong, but if the male celebrities to "girly" as a publicity point to win the hearts of the people. But if male celebrities use "effeminate" as a publicity point to gain more attention, this should definitely be resisted. Secondly, we shouldn't boycott male celebrities just because they have so-called feminine traits. We should pay more attention to their own qualities and talents, such as the above-mentioned Wu Qingfeng, whose songwriting ability is beyond doubt, should we just focus on his slender voice and call him "effeminate"? And Luhan, from the debut has been scolded, but really understand him know that he is a private personality bright Beijing man, in the peak period did not hesitate to announce his girlfriend, to the present no one top stream male stars can do. The real should boycott is those insulting women claptrap type behavior, such as a few days ago than the banning of the "eat peach peach", in the entertainment industry such should be resolutely boycott.