My husband abandoned his family for the so-called "confidante". Is it really true love between them?

There must be love between them, but I don't know how long this love will last.

Everyone has some friends of the opposite sex, which is a normal social need, but a man's confidant always makes his wife feel uneasy. He doesn't handle the relationship well, so the final result is often an affair. Even if the husband is not tempted, it is difficult to guarantee that the other party will not be tempted.

Men are willing to be friends with women because this woman's ability can help him do something, or an attempt to her, whether to find some warm feelings or to alleviate boredom, this is a very dangerous relationship.

Some husbands go beyond the boundaries of normal friendship, and when they lose their judgment, they will abandon their families for their confidantes, but there is no need to feel sorry for these things. A man who doesn't love you doesn't need you to spend too much time worrying.

You know, quarreling can't solve all problems. You must learn to analyze the cause of the problem. When you find the reason, it will be easier to solve. Even if you are divorced, you don't have to call.

In order to deal with a partner who doesn't value marriage, the first thing you have to do is to bind him. Because you discuss the importance of marriage with a person who doesn't value it, just like you discuss how to buy a house in Beijing with a person who has accomplished nothing.

Why marry a man who doesn't respect marriage and family? The only possibility is that you are cheated or that he has money. If you are cheated, I think you should get a divorce. Your husband will change his mind, and this family will be difficult to heal in the future. Unless you have great perseverance, you have no way out.

If the other person is rich, then you have suffered the pain you deserve now, and your only way out is to improve yourself. If your talent, kindness and emotional intelligence are not comparable to his wealth, then you can't change his mind.

Women need a bottom line, and men need responsibility. A woman with no bottom line can't change a responsible man. A man without sense of responsibility can't change a loyal woman.