Tradition is disobedient.

Playing will not solve the problem. Especially when children have grown up and have their own ideas, they can't start work yet. Only by letting him study (not necessarily at school) or find something to do and integrate him into society will he gradually understand the truth. In addition, parents should pay more attention to him and try to communicate with him so that he can gradually understand his parents' good intentions. It is no use being in such a hurry. Take your time.