Doing so will give your child a smart brain! Baby moms don't miss this stage

The moment a child croaks into the ground, he or she carries the hope and future of the family, as well as the hope and future of the nation.

Parents will want to do their best to give their children the best education.

In the last article, I used the book "The Language of Parents", a treasure trove, to introduce to you the importance of the language of parents from a scientific point of view - before the age of 3 years old, it is the golden period for the development of the child's brain, and we can shape the brain.

Real education begins the moment a fetus is conceived.

So how does this difference in language environment really make a difference in real life?

There are too many parents who think that babies are born not saying anything, not understanding anything, and just do their best to take care of their children's eating, drinking, and sleeping. In vain, they miss the golden stage of rapid brain development before the age of three. In fact, fetuses already have the ability to perceive, and babies of a few months old have thinking feelings and even morals.

Here, I share with you a real and visible case in my life.

I just coincided with The Language of Parenthood and benefited from it.

I did not read this scientific book when my daughter was young, but only with my own accumulated knowledge and sense that I should do so. I believe it would have been better if I had been fortunate enough to be guided by this book in a systematic and detailed way at that time.

When the doctor told me that I was almost three months pregnant, I was surprised and delighted, and really couldn't stop smiling. Not knowing the sex of the fetus and not wanting to know in advance, I gave my baby a neutral baby name, wrote her letters to express my love, talked and chatted with her, listened to music, and read her beautiful prose.

The whole pregnancy, except for the late action is not so agile, there is no discomfort, not even vomiting nausea.

After counting the spring flowers, fall, summer clouds, winter snow, the daughter came. Fetal development is too good, cesarean section, eight pounds two two, hair black to the ear, like a full moon child. Slapped by the doctor cried a cry, after that back to the hospital bed, just staring around, basically do not cry, very peaceful.

The baby was great to bring up. Her second uncle came to see her from out of town and didn't see any crying for a long time, and worriedly asked if she wouldn't cry. The time was long, and every day was spent in caressing, chatting, and laughing.

When I was three months old, I could hold her upright, and the stickers on the wall became another part of the conversation, and I was able to show her the sun, the moon, the stars, the thunder, the lightning, the rain, the snow, and the words. I didn't know if she understood it or not, just because she was so good and had nothing to do.

We have never used diapers. Her father wouldn't let her use them, so she put gauze on them because they were too uncomfortable. We started the occasional poop and pee during the month, and were able to do it a few times. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. Before the child was three years old, hair washing is also a child father wash, I am responsible for holding; lunch is made in the morning, and then go to work. I have nothing to do, the child father is not to blame. So a credit needs to be given.

When she was four months old, she could imitate drinking from a cup. That is a dinner, her father customary holding her sitting on his lap with one hand wrapped around half lying on his chest, the other hand with a glass of wine to drink, suddenly at one time to drink a glass of wine, she suddenly lifted his hand wrapped around his father's hand to pull the glass to his mouth. We laughed so hard that we hurriedly found a cup and filled it with water for her to try, and she's been using it ever since.

Six months old, she could sit on her own, and a set of 0-year-old books was ready to be read in front of her. I was impressed that there was a book about colors. Because at two years old showed the results of learning. Once on a bus with a long route, there were tickets being sold. When we got on the bus, I sat in the front with her in my arms and she looked around and pointed to the back and said to me, "Mommy, I don't want to sit in the blue chairs, I want to sit in those orange ones." The conductor chased her from the front to the back, asked how old the child was, and marveled, "I can't believe she knows orange, a child her age can't tell the colors." I then thought of the book she was studying when she was six months old. At that time, it also knew brown brown and other less commonly spoken colors.

The child was seven months old when she showed mixed emotions. One night while breastfeeding at bedtime, I was accidentally scratched by her new baby teeth, and the sudden pain made me yelp. I coaxed and apologized, telling her, "I screamed because it hurt, not because I disliked you or rebuked you, but because I love you". After crying for a long time, I was able to coax her to continue to take milk. She had her own wave of emotions. Breastfeeding was also scratched only this once.

When the child was nine months old, it was close to the New Year. We went to the wholesale market to buy candy. There were a lot of people waiting in line to be weighed and paid for their purchases. I was holding the child's father in my arms, and I was teasing him. I casually took a piece of candy and handed it to her, thinking that I would let her play with it so that she wouldn't be in a hurry. But all of a sudden she put her hands behind her back. I was a bit confused, I wasn't sure what was wrong with her, did she know that it wasn't her own?

When I finished paying and walked out of that store, I took another piece of candy from the bag and handed it to Eva, and she took it this time. I made sure of it, she understood the difference between her own, and others. Amazing isn't it? There are too many kids who are several years old who take things from other people, and parents will say that their kids are young and don't know any better. Actually, that's a misconception. The key is that the parents do not have the sense to guide and educate.

The New Year's Eve was back at my grandfather's house, and the big bags of clothes and toys were piled up on the bed. The morning after getting up and getting dressed, I carried over the grandma to the baby to do the big thick cotton pants, rustic color, cotton, wadding thick, can be down to the warmth. I put them at her feet and prepared to put them on her. She took over the cotton pants, whoosh to the side to go, lying on the aunt to buy cotton pants dragged over, big red, embroidered with a bear, to wear this. The first thing you need to know is that you have the ability to choose what you want to look at.

The child was eleven months old. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it," he said. Once we read the book and newspaper, we were so engrossed that no one made a sound. She suddenly pulled the newspaper from my hands to her feet, pointing to the words of the title, pointing vigorously. This is to let me read to her what words ah. The child has a sense of her own primary learning.

The child is one year old and can speak. I will ask my mom to read her a story, and I can read the words by myself. I remember watching the weather forecast on TV, the name of the city came out first, and then broadcast what city it was. When Kunming came out, she pronounced it "fart Ming", which made me laugh. When you look at it, Kun and fart are really similar.

The nightly bedtime story is a must. It's the same story over and over again. Sometimes I was tired, so I was perfunctory, and some of the auxiliary words were omitted, and she would immediately correct me as to what they should be. In this way, she memorized the story word for word, and then she learned the words by herself. By the time she was three she was able to read books on her own.

This was my baby's infancy, which was not quite the same as most kids her age.

Next post, we'll look at the case of another baby girl, and we'll know more about how important a language environment is at an early age.

Baby moms, don't miss the best age before 3 years old, let's give our children the best education, and let love be the power to add.