Married man to the woman to buy what?

Question 1: the marriage of the woman to the man to prepare what to buy so many shoes it, to the man to prepare suits (a set of matching on the line), a pair of shoes and rings, the previous rules are suits used to press the box of the wedding day, but now directly to the groom on the day of the wedding to wear, my mother let me object to the day of the wedding to wear it on the line, but that pair of shoes is not for the day of the wedding day to buy to wear the following began to say that the wedding The things in the box ha their own shoes, husband's shoes, in-laws shoes, if the grandparents are alive and well if you have to buy grandparents shoes, Laishan District side of the rule is that if the father-in-law has a brother, but also have to give his brother to buy shoes, or to the brother's family to buy a pair of pillowcases, ah, I have to buy 2 sets of pillowcases, to my object of the big father and uncle. I'm getting married next month on the 18th, last weekend and my mom went to Zhenhua one-time purchase all 6 pairs of shoes, back to see people understand, this is to get married ah! [em32]

Question 2: Before the marriage of the man to the woman to buy what Generally three gold, necklace, ring, bracelet, 30,000 yuan or so.

But I am not pay attention to these people, usually do not wear jewelry, so when I got married, my ex-husband only bought me a ring and necklace, two together only 8000 yuan, which has been bought super super super cheap, cheap to all hear everyone say that I am stupid. Experienced elders told me that it is not a question of whether I like to wear jewelry or not, but that I am not too careful, so I seem to be very good at talking and weak, and in the future, when I go to my mother-in-law's home, I will be bullied by my father-in-law and mother-in-law. Later on, this elder's words came true. My ex-father-in-law, seeing that I was so good at talking, treated me sloppily. He even planned to use the old bed that his son had slept in for years as the wedding bed when they got married. The bed was even so old that it had once collapsed and was repaired with nails by my former father-in-law himself. And the slippers in the wedding room, all old slippers, fur all worn flat, but also emit a very strong smell of feet ...... I won't list similar examples. In short, in order not to be bullied after marriage, the attitude can not be too soft. The three gold must be bought all the time, can not pick too cheap to buy.

Question 3: the man's wedding supplies list Marriage which need to be prepared The man is responsible for: house, decoration, wedding photos, a pair of rings, a diamond ring, honeymoon travel expenses, wedding officiant fees, dress fees, wedding car rental fees

The woman is responsible for: furniture, home appliances, bedding, home accessories

Regarding the cost of the wedding banquet, such as: liquor, wedding candy, wedding banquet, etc., mainly See who receives the gift, if the man's family money to do, all the gifts to the man, if the man and woman together to bear the cost, that is, half of the gifts received, if the man and woman are not in the same province and city, are separated from each other in their hometowns to do, that is, each to do their own gifts

If the man has to give the gift of money, then the jewelry and watches dresses and so on by the woman to buy the other or the man to pay for it

Specific words:

Furniture (TV stand, sofa, coffee table, chairs, dining table, closet, bed, etc.): 22,000, home appliances (refrigerator, TV, air conditioning, computers, range hoods, washing machines, water heaters, stereos, microwave ovens, etc.): 23,000, the kitchen and bathroom supplies (showers, washbasin, toilets, bathtubs, etc.): 3,000, life and wedding supplies: 2,000, Bedding: 3,000, wedding: 3,300, MC: 1,700, wedding car: 3,000, cigarettes: 6,000, liquor: 5,000, hotel: 35,000, sugar: 2,000, fireworks, etc.: 3,000

But also to be more specific, the general woman is responsible for home appliances, to give you a list of furniture I married to buy it, the main big pieces, small pieces do not need to be A list of ah

Name Specifications Budget Description

TV 46-inch 10000 target brand: Samsung

32-inch 4000

Refrigerator open door 6000

Air conditioning 3P living room 6000

1.5p master bedroom 3000

1P guest bedroom 2400

Washing machine 1 4000

Microwave oven 1 800 Floor tiles complimentary

Hood + gas cooker + sterilizer 1 8000 Electrolux

Water heater 80L electric 2400 A.O.

10L gas 2000

DVD 1 600

Sound 5- 7-piece set 4000

Total 53200

And then other expenses

Item Name Quantity Budgeted Amount Actual Spending Remarks

Wedding Photos Wedding Photography 1 6000

Bride Wedding Rings & Jewelry 3 15000 Pair of Rings+Diamond Rings

Gown Rental 4 4000 Partially obtained through Wedding Celebration and Studios.

Underwear 2 500

Wedding shoes (red and gold) 2 800

Groom Suit 1 2500

Tie 1 200

Belt 1 0 0 Already available

Leather shoes 1 500

Shirt 1 400

Pleasure items Wedding invitations 150 200

Red packet bag ( Red envelope bag (large) 4 16

Red envelope bag (large) 5 105 1 package of 20 yuan

Red envelope bag (medium) 1 135 1 package of 8 yuan

Red envelope bag (small) 100 250 1 package of 2 yuan

Windowpane 5 15 1 set of 3 yuan

Balloons 1 10 10 yuan for 100

Ribbons 1 10

Firecrackers 2 400

Firecrackers 2 400

Salutes 4 100 1 set of 25 yuan

Pleasure dolls 1 100 intend to go to Yangzhou to buy

Cigarettes, wine and sugar White wine (1) 20 1800 for the banquet

White wine (2) 4 500 to warm up the wine and the day of the wedding at noon to use

Red wine 25 1000

Pleasant cigarettes (1) 3 1500 for the banquet

Cigarettes (2) 3 1500 for the day Drinks 25 500

Tea, pastries and fruits 1 300

Sugar 250/200 1550

Wedding Wedding Cake (three-tier) 0 0

Wedding company 1 4500

Car rental 1 2800

Master of Ceremonies 1 1200

Makeup Artist 1 1200

Photographer 1 1200

Catering Wedding Banquet 15 22500

Wedding Day Noon both sides of the banquet 4 3200

Honeymoon Honeymoon trip 2 15000 Phuket? Bali?

Red Packet Breakdown Bridesmaids 1 288

Best Man 1 288

Carrying the Bride Downstairs 1 200

Child in the Pressure Bed 1 100

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Question 4: What does the woman have to buy the man when she gets engaged? An engagement ring needs to be purchased for the man.

The meaning of engagement:

Engagement, English: engagement

Engagement Engagement The function of the wedding is to determine the marriage relationship between the two parties in a ceremonial way, and with which to obtain social recognition and supervision. Once a man and a woman are formally engaged, both the man and the woman have to take some moral responsibility for the relationship, and the termination of the marriage contract is no longer a casual matter. In the event of a change in the marriage, the marriage must be negotiated between the two parties or mediated by outsiders. If negotiation and mediation fail, the marriage contract must be annulled by public announcement on certain occasions, or by a newspaper statement. Otherwise, it is considered an immoral act. If there is an economic dispute over the bride price, the consultation and mediation fails, can be to the court "lawsuit". There are also a number of small rituals and customs in the city's betrothal ceremonies. Because of the high degree of autonomy of men and women in their marriages, and in case their parents have not met their betrothed before they have announced their engagement plans, a meeting with the parents is arranged when the couple feels that their relationship will eventually progress to marriage. If there is no opportunity for parents to meet their fiancé or fiancée because of geography. Then, the two mention their special relationship to their families by phone, letter or e-mail before telling them of their engagement. The future groom and explains to the parents of his future wife his life plans and arrangements for starting a family. This conversation is always an important proof of the groom's respect for the bride's parents, an etiquette that cannot be ignored. This etiquette is comparable to the Western proposal of marriage.

Question 5: the marriage of the man to the woman to send a package of skin pressure what things the man should prepare for the woman's side of the five children's clothing "socks, underwear, outerwear", the girl out of the home to change, the daughter out of the home when the feet can not touch the ground, otherwise it will take away the mother's family's wealth, the man to your home when you want to set off firecrackers, the woman should also set off firecrackers, "is a sedan chair whip," the woman must be in the man's home before sundown to reach the man's house, or else the man's family in-laws will be blind, there is crying sedan chair, cry, crying sedan chair, the man will blind The wedding day, there are crying sedan chair, crying the more powerful that the deeper the mother-daughter relationship, the wedding day the man to the woman to pick up the bride, there will be a red baggage, which has a red envelope, the woman's family to see to the red envelope to add money, but also the money in the envelope, this money is called "children and grandchildren money", the man to the woman's home, the woman's home to prepare sugar tea, and eight kinds of pastries for the man to eat. The male family to eat, the bride on the car to go when there are two and the bride's generation of older brother or brother in the car of a former one after a slow walk, the slower the better, before to send men and women to half of the distance of the home, now all mean on the good. The bride seems to chest also put a mirror, I do not know what it means, but also to prepare a live carp, and so the next morning the bride got up to do a good job with the groom to eat,. I know so much. You want to know a little more if you ask the older old man

Problem six: the marriage of the female party to buy what the bride's line: a hanbok one, a small dress one, two pairs of shoes, back to the door a set of clothes, a number of jewelry.

Second, the bride married the day with things: bedding 2 sets, slippers two pairs (men and women each one),

pyjamas two sets (men and women each one), two pairs of socks (men and women each one), underwear pants two sets (men and women each one), toothbrush and toothbrush cups, toothpaste 1, body wash shampoo conditioner,

red basin 2, red buckets with lids 2, the children bathing in red basin a

Red basin 2, 2 red buckets with lids, 2 children's bath red basin, two towels, two bath towels, a cosmetic box with a mirror comb

(mirror should be round not square), a soap box, a pair of dolls, prickly heat powder, kitchen aprons, a set of cosmetics,

10 pieces of bowls and pots of various sizes, a number of money, happy bowls, happy cups, etc., ready to fill the gift money of the red packet.

Third, kitchen utensils

rice cooker, frying pan, steamer, knife and spatula.

Fourth, the specific standards:

1, red bucket: children and grandchildren bucket, wrapped in a large red cloth outside. Inside the bucket, 8 items are placed.

Respectively: red peanuts, red dates, cinnamon, five red duck eggs, popcorn, a bundle of chopsticks, a package of toilet paper, a small bundle of cypress branches.

The other bucket is full of rice, with red dates and cinnamon balls placed on top. Both buckets are placed on top of the cypress branches (small bundles) and red happy words. Red cloth wrapped.

2, red basin: a red plastic basin placed in the bride to help the grandfather, grandmother bought each pair of shoes and socks and hats each one. Shoes need to be placed in the socks, 3 sections of peanuts, sugar each 2.

The other basin placed in the health scale, with seeds in a pot of Nelumbo Nucifera. In both pots, place some red jujube seeds, cinnamon and cypress branches (small bundles). And cover the red happy words on top.

3, bedding preparation 2 sets,

A set is to bring to the husband's home to the in-laws: red hundred quilt 1, 1 pair of pillows.

A set is laid on the new bed, composed of the following 4 parts:

①, the traditional red Baizi quilt, green dragon and phoenix quilt 1 each,

②, cushion quilt 3 beds, cover quilt 3 (duvet, wool, silk 1 each)

③, 2 pillows, double pillows 1

④, a set of red bedding bedding

Question seven: Married man to the woman to buy toiletries some of what the South should be prepared towels, washbasin, comb, soap, mirrors, slippers, toothbrush toothpaste, toothpaste, and are double, I remember that is these, each place is also different

Question 8: two people married together, then, the man needs to buy some of the woman? As long as the two people are truly love each other, the other buy what is not important, after all, true love is money can not buy, but it is possible to count too much and lose more.

Question 9: Northeast wedding man to the woman to buy what The Northeast is a local custom.

The current wedding according to the Western form is to give the bride a ring at the wedding.

Not to give the bride's parents red envelope, but the change fee is a wedding must be a process, I think it is necessary for both parents to agree with each other, or one side more than one side less will be very embarrassing, anyway, the money is for the new people, not than the row. In accordance with the conditions from 99-9999?, to change the money will say that my son-in-law or daughter-in-law is a hundred miles a thousand miles a thousand miles a thousand miles or something.

And the bride price is different according to the conditions. I am in the Shenyang area, the average farmer in the countryside, the bride price money even reached 100,000, that all feel like selling their daughters, very twisted, ... I am a citizen, I only gave the bride's family 20,000. This is communicated in advance, after all, the money is also given to the bride, and the property after marriage is **** the same. Unless a property agreement will be signed...

Before the wedding, it is best to communicate well with the bride's family to see what their family needs to pay attention to, there are many villages in the Northeast, and each small area has its own customs and traditions, and the bride's relatives may deliberately arrange to come out specifically to find fault, this is best to discuss beforehand with the bride's family, if it is not a particularly large family, try to avoid this process.

The wedding of the new couple and the groom's parents need to toast each table, according to the generation rotation, if the groom side and the parents of the alcohol is not good, steal the mineral water it. The bride's mother's family will have a special representative of 1 or even a few, is the bride's family generation of the largest figures, so you need to arrange out of the male side of the special seniority and prestige of the elders to specialize in the female side of the representative of the hospitality. If the new unit leaders present, then must be arranged at the table of elders, so that both sides are a kind of respect.

The bride's family brought children, each to send a red envelope, one or more of which is 'escorting the car', these several escorting the car should be a little more than other children.

In addition, according to the current popularity of the wedding process, may need all the relatives and friends of the bride and groom will be in the same hotel banquet, my family in Shenyang, I recently attended the wedding, the bride's family will give their own close blood relatives a red envelope, this red envelope within the money, but the bride's family own package, just in the process of the wedding toast to the guests to drink when given to the newcomer. This is not gift money. The groom's family does not have to compare.

The main first communication it, do not compare each other, do not fight, try not to burden the new man.

There must be a cave-in, this can need to grasp the newcomers themselves Oh, would have been tired on the wedding can not be accompanied by a smile to continue to be tired.

This will need to be grasped by the bride and groom themselves.