A New Chapter in Life —— Shorthand of the 67th Family Virtue Class of Anyang Lianchi Academy

From now on, life will start a new chapter.

-Shorthand of the 67th Family Virtue Class Sharing Class of Anyang Lianchi College

Chongyang Wang

After seven days of listening, I am grateful. Lianchi Academy has a good relationship.

Sages teach, hell and heaven choose.

Filial piety takes the lead, and filial sons and grandchildren gather around.

Today, I am very happy to take it home, and my life will show a new chapter.

On June 8th, 2020, 10, the 67th Family Virtue Public Welfare Promotion Class held by Lianchi College in Anyang, Henan Province came to a successful conclusion. After more than 90 students from all over the country left the college and went home, a note was quietly added to the desk of the college office, on which an anonymous doggerel of 16 was neatly written. The title of this article and the poem at the beginning all come from this poem.

Although the antithesis is not neat, this poem highly summarizes the gains of all the students. In particular, the last two sentences, "I'm glad to return to China today, and my life has started a new chapter", show that all students face life with a brand-new attitude and live a good future with confidence after finding the secret of physical and mental harmony and family harmony.

Some people will say that this is bragging. Physical and mental harmony and family harmony are two major problems. Have you ever noticed that there are many diseases and problems in the body and mind of today's society, and how many families are more or less disharmonious? Can participants solve these two problems in just seven days?

Yes, these two problems may be two knots in the eyes of mortals, and there is no clue to solve them. But in the eyes of saints, they are two simple things. That is to say, no matter how serious the physical and mental patients or family conflicts you are facing, as long as you practice the principles of girl, son, husband and wife, parents and old people that must be observed in all stages of life, and as long as you really follow the five virtues summarized by ancient sages, all problems will be solved, and these ways of being a man are the learning contents of the family virtue class of Anyang Lianchi Academy.

If you don't believe me, please take a look at the following case to understand the mystery. These cases were told by the students on the last day of the comprehensive sharing class of the 67th Family Virtue Class of Anyang Lianchi College.

1.36-year-old female student: No more "AA" with her husband.

A 36-year-old female student from Xingtai, Hebei Province took the stage and said that she had found the root of family disharmony and the inaction of the hotel staff. I am too selfish to be a good girl or a daughter-in-law.

She said that I have been ambitious, vain and selfish since I was a child. It is precisely because of selfishness that she and her husband have been living an "AA system" after marriage, regardless of the expenses of raising children or other expenses, they are all "AA system". I opened a hotel. I invested in it myself. I often tell the hotel staff that this hotel is mine, and even if my husband comes, no one can listen to him.

When she said this, all the students below laughed and felt very strange. The lecturer in charge of the comprehensive sharing class asked, "If your husband eats in your hotel, do you need to pay?" The female student quickly said, "This is unnecessary." Everyone laughed.

The female student went on to say that apart from being separated from her husband economically, she was not very close emotionally. I used to complain that my husband wouldn't hurt people, but now I have learned all kinds of moral norms that people need to abide by all their lives, only to find that I didn't do my duty as a girl from the beginning, which led to various deviations in my later life.

She said that before I got married, I had emotional experiences, did things I shouldn't have done, and never felt ashamed, but it was normal. When I married my current husband, I told him about my previous experience and said to him, "If you forgive me, we will get married. If you don't forgive me, we won't get married." .

After marriage, the husband and wife still have conflicts because of my previous experience, and they feel that they have no feelings for each other. So after my first child was born, my second child miscarried because I didn't think it was necessary to have one. It was not until I came to study that I was not ashamed of the above behavior.

The students in the audience all sighed with pity when they heard this.

She went on to say that because I am selfish, I only consider my own interests in my work. I feel that all the employees employed in my hotel are paid, so the employees should serve me wholeheartedly. As long as employees make a little mistake, I will always insist on criticism. The staff said that working in my hotel for eight hours every day is as long as working for a year.

In this way, I am full of negative emotions every day, which finally leads to a whole body of diseases: urticaria, perennial allergy, cervical pain, bad stomach, indigestion and constipation. What is even more worrying is that although the child is still young, it has already begun to rebel.

She said that the teacher taught everyone to look for benefits and admit that they are not, so that they can be harmonious in body and mind and family, and I really did it. In doing so, I found that my husband, who I hate very much, actually loves me very much. Because of love, my husband has been letting me go.

For example, when my husband calls me or chats with me, I often hang up because I hate my husband and don't want to listen to his voice. I only asked my husband to type what he wanted to say and send it through WeChat. Then, if I want to see it, I will delete it if I don't want to see it, and ignore my husband. But no matter how many times this happens, my husband does it every time, so he is not in a hurry. Isn't this for me?

She said that it is precisely because I learned to look for benefits and admit that I am not. In recent days, the negative emotions accumulated in my body for many years have been effectively resolved, and all parts of my body are unobstructed: the cervical vertebra has stopped hurting and constipation has improved. I haven't had a bowel movement once these two days. I have had a bowel movement twice a day these days, which is very comfortable.

Everyone laughed when she spoke.

At this time, the lecturer gave timely guidance: "Do you know why you are sick? Because you and your husband are too good at accounting when they are engaged in' AA system'. A saint once said,' Smart people are easy to settle accounts now, and they are either sorry or wronged. "How can they not be sick?" "

The female student said that what the teacher said is so right. I will definitely correct it when I go back and never engage in "AA system" with my husband again. I will continue to look for benefits. When I get back, I will look for at least 20 benefits from my husband to make my body, mind and family harmonious.

Everyone applauded the student's change and attitude.

Second, a 46-year-old female student: found a way to change her daughter's autism.

A 46-year-old female student from Hebi City, Henan Province, said that it was the first time that she systematically studied the traditional way of self-cultivation and self-cultivation. This study overthrew many of her previous understandings and gained a lot. But because I didn't know what traditional culture was before, I reluctantly came. My mother's family and sister-in-law forced me to study. After studying, I realized my sister-in-law's good intentions, so I am very grateful to her.

She said that my hometown is Linzhou, Anyang City. After graduating from college, I worked in the neighboring Hebi city and settled in Hebi. 1998 When I got married in Hebi, my family didn't quite agree. When my daughter was 7 years old, her husband disappeared in a car accident. After my husband left, my mother-in-law and I had financial conflicts and had no contact for many years.

She said that her daughter is now in the third year of high school, studying in a better high school in Hebi City, and her grades are good. However, I have been ill intermittently since the second year of high school, so I can't go to school well. After the epidemic eased in the first half of 2020, my daughter only stayed in school for one month and went home for treatment. So far, she has not been to school. What happened to my daughter? At first I had a headache and a fever, but later I couldn't study in class. I said that I had a headache when I was studying in class, and my mind was blank.

So, she asked the lecturer in the audience a question: What should I do to make my child get better and go to school in the future?

The lecturer said that the superficial symptoms of today's children are: heavy study pressure, psychological problems and confusion about the future. This is actually a state of self-isolation. For her, she may just feel bitter and tired. In fact, she is a mirror of you, and her situation just reflects your present situation. Let me ask you, do you feel bitter now? So what's the relationship between your? Do you have any complaints about your in-laws?

The female student said that she was wronged. Especially for my husband, what can I do if he leaves? I am angry not only with my husband, but also with my parents and in-laws. My hair is much whiter this year, and I have a lot of bitterness in my heart.

The teacher in the audience said that many of us are living a hard life now. Why? Because everyone has packaged themselves exquisitely, and they don't want to talk about their pains, but they don't know that the layers of packaging are just a rotten stone. You must find your own problems now. Tell me, what problems have you found through your study these days? Is there any reason for your daughter's stress?

The female student said, yes, I used to call my daughter stupid, but now I find myself stupid. When she finished, the audience burst into laughter.

The teacher in the audience said that parents force their children to be good every day, but the children are not good. How can the child get better? Now, children also let you feel how they feel when you are in conflict with your parents. You cut out your parents' hearts, and your children cut out your hearts. The female student said, yes, now I think my daughter's problem is rooted in me. I used to feel that I gave my heart to my daughter. Why hasn't my daughter changed?

The teacher said that your parents did the same to you. The female student said, yes, the key is that I was young and ignorant at that time, and I just felt that my parents were wrong. The teacher said that now, your daughter is also saying that you are wrong.

The female student said, teacher, please tell me, what can I do to change my daughter? The lecturer said that when you go back to tell your parents and in-laws, you must learn how to be a girl and daughter-in-law, and then learn how to be a man. If you can change a little, so can your children; If you can change ten points, so can your children. How many points do you want to change?

The female student said, I want to change ten points. The lecturer said, well, that depends on whether you can do it. If you lie, your daughter will look at you. Remember, you can't fake it. The female student said firmly, I know, I will definitely do it.

Seeing her so confident, all the students gave her warm applause.

Three, 46-year-old female students: The body has undergone extremely unexpected changes.

A 46-year-old female student in Handan, Hebei Province, said excitedly as soon as she took the stage, when my friend recommended me to study, she said that the family virtue class in Anyang Lianchi College was very effective, and cancer patients would be fine soon after coming to study for seven days. Then if the child is unwilling to go to school and extremely rebellious, and the parents come here to study, the child will be obedient immediately. So, I come to study.

Her words made everyone laugh.

The lecturer sitting in the audience said, you can't brag like this. It is understandable that students want good health, good health, good children and good families, but the decision is not made by teachers and colleges, but by students themselves. As the old saying goes, our teacher just teaches you the truth of being a man summed up by ancient sages. If a learner can do something and change something according to the standard, then his body, children and family will become better.

The female student said that I didn't really know to be a qualified person until I listened to the class for seven days. I also understand that life will be smooth only if a person learns to be a man. To tell the truth, according to the teacher's way of being, I have never been a girl in front of my parents, a daughter-in-law in front of my parents, and a mother in front of my children. I will definitely correct it in the future. Although I don't understand it deeply, I only understand 1%. I'm making progress, too. I'll do what I understand.

The female student went on to say that everyone was laughing at what I said just now. In fact, I'm not talking casually, because my body has undergone a very unexpected and good change in these seven days. Although this is a private matter, I still want to say it, because we are all one of our own. It's just that I've been menopausal for a year, and my period has come again these days. It's amazing.

Everyone felt very strange when they heard it.

At this time, the lecturer in the audience said that there is a saying in medicine that a woman's qi and blood will become milk when she goes up, and menstruation will be formed when she goes down. And people with smooth qi and blood are healthy.

If you can't be a man, you will be annoyed by a lot of anger, hate and resentment every day, and you will be stuck here and there, with poor blood circulation and unhealthy body. In addition, women's menstrual cycle, menstrual volume was very regular, but now many women's menstrual cycle is delayed or advanced, and in terms of quantity, it is less and less, which is caused by poor qi and blood. Therefore, as a woman, if she wants to be healthy, she must first learn to be a person. Of course, so do men. If you want to be healthy, you must learn to be a man first.

At this time, the female student on the stage said, I want to make an ambition: after I go back, I want to set an example, be a qualified person according to the requirements of the way of life I have learned these days, and set an example for my family and people around me, so that everyone can learn traditional culture and have a harmonious body, mind and family.

As soon as her voice fell, there was a burst of warm applause.

In just half a day, more than 20 students took the stage to share their gains. They all have different degrees of gains and have a new understanding of how to promote physical and mental harmony and family harmony. I won't give examples here. I believe everyone understands the secret of physical and mental harmony and family harmony. That is: strictly follow the moral norms of all roles in life, only look for benefits for others and admit that you are not. If your filial piety, faithfulness, courtesy, honesty and shame are achieved, you will be in harmony with your body and mind, and your family will be in harmony without disaster, thus promoting social harmony and making your life more meaningful.

If you can do this, you can start a new chapter in your life …