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Women are not allowed to serve at the table. Is this gender inequality?

Personally, I can't accept this custom, but it depends.

1, when having a meal, a table for men and women are not allowed. This custom really belongs to inequality between men and women.

In the past, there was a custom that men sat at a table while women were not allowed to serve.

This situation really belongs to gender inequality. Such wind speed is a stereotype and should be abandoned. ..... With the development and progress of the times, the concept of equality between men and women has gradually taken root in people's hearts, and this situation is becoming less and less.

2, men drink and sit at a table; There is nothing wrong with a woman sitting at another table without drinking.

When family members eat, sometimes it does happen that men and women are separated

But this situation is not because of inequality between men and women, but because of eating habits and other problems. ..... men and women have different topics. They sit at different tables and communicate with each other more smoothly. ..... In addition, men generally drink when eating, and women generally don't drink when eating, so it is normal to sit at the table when eating.

This situation does not belong to gender inequality.

You can't think that men and women are unequal just because they are separated.

We can't unilaterally understand the custom of separating tables for men and women as inequality between men and women.

In daily life, it is very normal for men and women to eat at different tables because of chat topics, eating habits and other reasons, or to be separated naturally when engaging in other activities. This is not a phenomenon of inequality between men and women, and it cannot be copied mechanically. ...

4. The relationship between couples is harmonious, girls are highly valued, and there is no gender inequality.

Eating at different tables is a normal thing in Shandong. In the past, there was more or less the concept of gender discrimination, but today there is absolutely no concept of gender discrimination.

That day, it was my boyfriend's grandmother's birthday. A table for boyfriends and male guests, and a table for girls and female guests. Two tables are adjacent. When my boyfriend eats and drinks, he doesn't forget to send shrimp to his girlfriend at the next table.

If a family of *** 10 people can eat at the same table, what if there are twenty or thirty people in the family? Do you want to squeeze a table? At present, a table at home can accommodate up to a dozen people. How to eat for 30 people?

If there are many people, we must eat at different tables. How can we eat? Drinking, not drinking, smoking, not smoking, talking about politics, football, housework, gossip, entertainment and so on. Can a man who drinks and smokes be happy with a woman who gossips and entertains?