Why do older women like female subordinates?

Many of us are thinking about the question: marriage is so bitter, why there are still so many people are married?

There is a good saying, because life is very bitter, there are a lot of difficult, need two people together to carry to get by. There is so much uncertainty in life and we are born afraid of being alone, so we would also want to find someone who makes you feel comfortable and makes you less lonely.

In human life, about love, will always be a topic for all time.

Han Wei is 35 years old, working in a large company in Shanghai, as a doctoral graduate, she has a broad network of resources, has its own superior conditions, coupled with her efforts, but two years from the human resources of an ordinary staff promoted to the project manager, she is extremely serious and demanding work, quite appreciated by his superiors.

In the eyes of outsiders, she is already considered a successful person, as a woman, she has her own house, with women want to have a checkroom, but the only thing that makes the family headache is still unmarried. It is said that it is hard for female doctors to find a date, and this saying is kind of fulfilled in her.

Han Wei, as they say, you can see that she is good at everything and has a good personality, but she doesn't have a boyfriend. Han Wei has been waiting for the right person to show up, but by the time she was 35 years old, there was still no sign of that person.

Sometimes Han Wei looks back and thinks that she has been single for so many years, in fact, she is not no one to chase, but too demanding instead of letting a relationship before the beginning of the end.

Han Wei is quite regretful, she felt that she missed a lot of people, she realized that love and marriage to be evenly matched, but also summed up the reasons why she is still unmarried:

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First: you can be highly educated, but don't be too picky

Highly educated is indeed one of the reasons why Han Wei is single, because along the way, she has met a lot of people, so her eyes are more picky, because of high qualifications, so the eye is not too picky. Because of her high education level, she always has an attitude of contempt for those who are below her education level, which makes her stay away from people, and for this reason, no one is interested in this kind of high and cold but also arrogant woman.

Women's high education is not a bad thing, high education represents a girl's effort and pursuit of life.

Women for men, may be in the body strength are less than men, but women's obsessive strength is far greater than men, so once determined to learn the woman is not easy to give up, so once the girls read the blog, unconsciously will put themselves in a high position, this is not acceptable, can be highly educated, but do not be too picky, because it is difficult to find a person with their own education in general, and find a person who is in tune with yourself is even harder.

Second: women who don't pay attention to image and can't dress up

In this era of face, men are mostly the Association of Appearance, if you're not pretty enough, who wouldn't be willing to take a look at you more than once, and it has to be admitted that men and women alike like beautiful things, especially the higher the value of the face, the more it can attract the attention of others. Both face value and talented people are more likely to get people's appreciation, even if the natural face value is not enough, but also with the dress to come together.

Han Wei wears professional clothes when she goes to work, and she usually wears pajamas when she doesn't go out at home, and she never dresses up. Although also painted lipstick at work, but the color is too heavy, giving people a kind of solemn, feeling lifeless. In addition to work, vacation and go out to play is also mostly a casual dress, loose, no women's taste.

Most men prefer a pretty, well-behaved and naive girl, and if you're not pretty, how will he look at you? If you don't dress up, how will she look at you? Only you wear beautiful, slightly dressed, love of life, more vitality, to attract the attention of men. A lot of people say they don't care if you're a vegetarian, but in fact they don't think so at all. Think about it differently, you really do not mind sticking together with a scruffy person?