What suggestions do international students have to go to grandma's house to thank Xiao?

The gift from Xiao Xie is very important. You can't just buy gifts, you have to prepare them for your family. According to the traditional custom, when mourning the dead on the day of funeral, the bride's family should prepare the gifts needed by her filial son to thank her filial piety. There are not many gifts, but you must prepare them. The specific contents are: a white rooster, a plate of firecrackers, two carp, seven or eight pounds of offerings (knives), a handful of incense, eight steamed buns, several bundles of yellow burning paper, two white candles and so on. And they also bring gifts when thanking filial piety in different areas.

For the preparation of mourning clothes, the dutiful son goes to his uncle's house to thank him. He should wear neat mourning clothes, shirts and belts. Then, the dutiful son, under the leadership of the elders of the same clan, thanked his uncle's family.

After the funeral, thanking filial piety is an ancient custom, which means that the filial son's family salutes the mourners, and also means to pay tribute to relatives and friends who come to mourn after the funeral expires. In modern funerals, nephews/nieces mostly go to their uncles' homes to thank their filial piety, that is, the deceased's family. Whether the deceased is male or female, the children of the deceased should attend the ceremony of thanking filial piety. Go to my uncle's house to thank the little people, mostly the children of the deceased.