The importance of passing on good family style

Family style is the beginning of the inheritance of history and culture, is a symbol of the historical memory of a nation, a good family style carries both the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but also carries the hope of the future development of society.

In China's history, through the good family style of inheritance of education, so that countless family learning into the wind, talent, for the country and society to cultivate a large number of outstanding talent, loyalty to the country's heroes Yue Fei, and so on, are the result of the good family style of inculcation.

A family without good traditional virtues, there is no good family style, will not cultivate talents with excellent personal training, there will not be a good family, there will not be a happy life, there will not be the future of the children and grandchildren of the future, this is a thousand years of emperors and prime ministers of the house, rich and noble family home, the people of the house of the rise and fall of the history of the proof of the.

The following situations are bad family style:

1, spoiling, indulgence of the child

Yan's Family Tradition has a cloud: Parents are strict and wise, then the children are afraid of prudence and filial piety. Parents in front of their children, should not be pampered, but majesty and wisdom, then the children will be fearful of their parents, cautious and filial piety. Between parents and children, there is a good and harmonious relationship, in order to let the children grow up healthily, family harmony, long-lasting.

2, do not believe in doing good deeds

The Great Treasure of the Sutra has a verse: If a hundred thousand robberies, the created karma does not die, karma will meet, the fruit is still self-suffering. All dharmas are empty, but karma is not. When karma meets, the rewards come. Therefore, people live, can not be separated from the cause and effect, to do good and virtuous, in order to plant a wide range of good karma.

3, complaining, arguing

Some families of young couples, both personalities are strong, do not give way to each other, and fight for some small things to fight for a result out. In fact, there is no need to do so, the results are there, but the process of arguing has hurt each other's harmony, the heart has a gap, the future is unfavorable to get along. Especially in the face of children quarrel, the growth of children is unfavorable.