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Civilized manners, small knowledge of family education

1. Little knowledge of manners (short)

Tips on Civilization and Etiquette 1, Handshake Ceremony: Originated in medieval Europe, it has become the most common and universal greeting ceremony in interpersonal communication all over the world.

2. Jugongli: Originated in China, it is rarely seen as a daily meeting etiquette, but it is a common ceremony in Japan, South Korea and North Korea. Stand at attention, take off your hat, smile, look straight, and lean forward 15-30 degrees (outward when giving gifts or confessing).

Peers should reciprocate, and elders and superiors should nod in return. 3. Hand-in-hand ceremony: also known as namaste, Buddhist etiquette, popular in India and Southeast Asian Buddhist countries, especially Thailand.

When saluting, put your hands on your chest, bow your head slightly, and look serene and serious. The higher the hand is raised, the more polite it is to the elderly, but the fingertips must not exceed the forehead.

When receiving foreign tourists, the other party will clap their hands, and we will reciprocate in the same way. There are other manners when meeting, such as waving, bowing, taking off your hat, staring, nodding, greeting, greeting and clapping.

1. Handshake Ceremony: Originated in medieval Europe, it has become the most common and universal greeting ceremony in interpersonal communication all over the world. 2. Jugongli: Originated in China, it is rarely used as a daily meeting etiquette, but it is very popular in Japan, South Korea and North Korea, and it is a routine ceremony.

Stand at attention, take off your hat, smile, look straight, and lean forward 15-30 degrees (outward when giving gifts or confessing). Peers should reciprocate, and elders and superiors should nod in return.

3. Hand-in-hand ceremony: also known as namaste, Buddhist etiquette, popular in India and Southeast Asian Buddhist countries, especially Thailand. When saluting, put your hands on your chest, bow your head slightly, and look serene and serious.

The higher the hand is raised, the more polite it is to the elderly, but the fingertips must not exceed the forehead. When receiving foreign tourists, the other party will clap their hands, and we will reciprocate in the same way.

There are other manners when meeting, such as waving, bowing, taking off your hat, staring, nodding, greeting, greeting and clapping. Walking Etiquette (1) Urban streets are busy and bustling. Walking outside is not only a public morality, but also a respect for life.

(2) Pay attention to the traffic lights when crossing the zebra crossing, and strictly observe the habit of "stop at the red light and go at the green light". (3) Don't cross the road just because you want to walk less.

Sidewalks, overpasses and underpasses are specially designed for pedestrians. Please don't forget their purpose. (4) If you accidentally meet someone while walking, you should apologize to them in time.

(5) When a pedestrian asks for directions, give a warm and detailed answer. If you can't answer, you can ask others for help.

(6) When walking with an umbrella, pay attention to the pedestrians around you to avoid rain dripping on others or poking them. (7) When pedestrians use the vehicle stop gesture, they must wait for the vehicle to stop completely before passing, and do not pass at will.

Bus etiquette (1) When waiting for a bus, stand near the bus stop sign and queue up to get on the bus in order. In case of old people, pregnant women and children, please ask them to line up in front of you and prepare the change before getting on the bus. (2) After getting on the bus, don't compete with others for seats. Passengers who meet the elderly, sick, disabled, pregnant women and children should take the initiative to give up their seats. If someone offers his seat, thank him immediately.

(3) Don't smoke in the car, and don't eat snacks that pollute the environment, such as melon seeds, chewing gum and ice cream. Don't make noise in the car. (4) When standing in the car, hold the handle by hand, and don't lean all your body on the lever in the car.

Keep the correct posture when standing, and keep your feet apart. (5) When sitting in the seat, be careful not to sit with your legs crossed, and don't keep shaking your legs. These are all bad manners.

(6) Get ready in advance when getting off the bus. If you need someone to make way, you should say hello politely. You can't rush silently, let alone lose your temper and call names. (7) Ride away the rain gear in rainy days, so as not to affect others.

When waiting for the elevator according to the elevator etiquette (1), stand on both sides of the elevator door so as not to hinder the people in the elevator from getting out. (2) When taking the elevator, the elderly, children, ladies or guests should be allowed to enter first. Young people and men should stand by and watch the elevator button and help press the elevator.

(3) After entering the elevator, don't block the elevator button with your body, lest others can't press the button. When you need to press the button but can't reach it, don't stretch your arm too long, but ask someone close to the button for help.

(4) If the elevator door is about to close, but no one has come in yet, the person who enters the elevator first should help hold down the door opening button and wait for the person behind to come in. (5) When moving in the elevator, especially when holding something in your hand, be careful not to bump into others.

In and out of the elevator, you need to walk past others and say "sorry" or "sorry". (6) When taking the elevator with guests or elders, if you reach the destination floor, you should hold down the door opening button with one hand and make this action with the other.

(7) If the number of people is overloaded, they should take the initiative to quit.

2. What are the little knowledge of civility and etiquette?

First of all, we should express our gratitude in a timely and positive way to show our sincerity. Second, be honest and trustworthy, and never compromise on your promises. Third, we should choose appropriate methods according to different objects. Fourth, we should master the degree of gratitude and strive to achieve reasonable and appropriate meeting etiquette, including shaking hands, business cards, taking off hats, hugging and kissing.

Give away business cards: When we meet for the first time, we often give each other business cards. Business cards can be given before the exchange, at the end of the exchange, or at the time of parting, depending on the specific situation.

It is best to use both hands when handing a business card, and the front of the business card should face the other party; Thank you after receiving your business card. Generally, don't reach out and ask for a business card. When asking for a business card, use the tone of request, such as "If it is convenient for you, please give me a business card so that we can contact later."

Hat removal ceremony: When meeting, men should take off their hats or raise their hats to greet each other. If you meet the same person many times before and after the same occasion, you don't have to take off your hat repeatedly. Guests must take off their hats when entering the host room.

On solemn and formal occasions, you should consciously take off your hat. Hugs and kisses are very popular in Europe and America.

Hugging ceremonies are often used in official and civil social occasions, such as welcoming guests or congratulating and thanking them. The two men stood face to face, with their upper bodies slightly leaning forward, their right arms on the upper side and their left arms on the lower side. Embrace the left shoulder with your right hand, the right waist with your left hand, the head and upper body to the right, and finally the left.

Kissing ceremony: Kissing ceremony is often accompanied by a certain degree of hug. People with different relationships and identities kiss in different parts. In public and social occasions, close women can kiss their faces, men hug each other with their shoulders, and men and women usually stick their cheeks; The younger generation kisses the elder's forehead; Men can kiss their fingers or the back of their hands to distinguished female guests.

In welcome occasions in many countries, hosts and guests often express their most sincere enthusiasm and respect by shaking hands, hugging, kissing on the cheeks left and right, sticking on the cheeks and so on. Western etiquette Western tableware is mainly knives, forks and spoons, that is, spoons and napkins. For example, there are no common things on the western food table, such as toothpicks and wet towels.

Because foreigners regard eating as a social activity, if you want to wipe your face with a wet towel, won't your makeup be painted in vain? There are hot towels for Chinese food. Wipe them. Many people wipe their sweat, but there is no such thing as western food. Besides, there are no toothpicks. I once said that picking one's teeth in public is an uncivilized behavior, which destroys the appetite of others, is ugly to oneself, looks ferocious and turns others off.

So don't look for toothpicks on the western food table, let alone pick your teeth with a knife. 1. The meaning of etiquette According to research, etiquette was a sacrifice to the gods in ancient China.

There is a word "Li" in Oracle Bone Inscriptions. The ancient word "Li" is similar to the word "shoe", both of which mean shoes. It is good to walk in shoes.

But the shoes should not be too big or too small, just right. Later, the meaning of the word "Li" became more and more.

In the Zhou dynasty, in order to adjust the relationship between people, "courtesy" and "virtue" were combined into one. With the emergence of hierarchical system, "courtesy" has become a criterion for interpersonal communication that distinguishes nobility, humility, obedience and virtue, and is above other social concepts.

As Confucius said, "People who are rude are not born, things that are rude are not successful, and countries that are rude are uneasy." These three words "Li" have their own meanings.

In modern language, the first word "Li" refers to the code of conduct in life communication; The second word "reason" refers to rules and regulations; The third "ceremony" refers to the political and legal system. 2. The meaning of the instrument According to textual research, the meaning of the word "instrument" includes five aspects: 1. Regulations and standards; 2. Demonstration and demonstration; 3. Form and ceremony; 4. Appearance and demeanor; 5. gifts.

3. The meaning of etiquette The word "etiquette" first appeared in The Book of Songs and The Book of Rites. In modern society, the word "etiquette" has a broader meaning, which includes salute ceremony, etiquette and ceremony, rituals stipulated by customs, codes of conduct, communication procedures, etiquette order, moral norms and so on.

The understanding and knowledge of "etiquette" in society is multi-level, which mainly includes the following meanings: 1. Ritual refers to the rituals formed in social life due to customs and habits for everyone to abide by. It also contains the meaning of moral quality.

2. etiquette 3. Politeness 4. Politeness 5. Etiquette 6. Etiquette

There is little information about politeness.

When you meet a teacher, be polite, salute and say hello without contradicting.

Between classmates, you, I and he help each other without beating and cursing.

I feel sorry for doing something wrong. Answer politely. No problem.

I love trees, cherish flowers and plants and beautify the environment.

The classroom is beautifully decorated, clean and tidy, and in a good mood.

Be conscious when eating lunch, and don't forget order and hygiene.

The ever-burning lamps and faucets will always be turned off when you have the heart. Don't waste them.

Large and small meetings should be disciplined, and the assembly team should be fast and quiet.

Regular exercise and regular exercise are the most precious things for healthy body and mind.

Be civilized, observe etiquette, and everyone strives to be a good child.

Good conduct, once cultivated, will benefit for life and be popular.

4. What are the little knowledge of Chinese civilization etiquette?

China civilization etiquette knowledge are:

1. Take the initiative to express gratitude in time to show sincerity.

Be honest and trustworthy, and never compromise on your promise.

3. According to different objects, choose appropriate methods.

4. Grasp the degree of gratitude and try to be reasonable and appropriate.

5. There should be a handshake ceremony, a business card ceremony, a hat ceremony, a hug ceremony and a kiss ceremony.

China has a history of 5,000 years of civilization and is known as "the state of etiquette". China people are also famous for their polite style. Etiquette civilization, as an important part of China traditional culture, has exerted a wide and far-reaching influence on the social and historical development of China. Its content is very rich, involving a wide range, and almost permeates all aspects of society.

One of Common Sense of Civilized Etiquette-Basic Etiquette

Personal etiquette is the basis of all other etiquette, the comprehensive expression of a person's radiant appearance, appearance, speech and behavior, and the external expression of personal character, quality, taste, cultivation, spiritual world and living habits. The general norm is: clean and refreshing, dignified and generous.

I. Etiquette and manners

Keep your hair clean and properly groomed, and the hairstyle is suitable for my condition, identity and nature of work. Men should shave every day. Ladies' make-up should be simple, beautiful and elegant, avoid excessive use of aromatic cosmetics and avoid making up in public. The expression is natural and calm, the eyes are focused, steady and soft. Keep your hands clean in formal occasions and avoid long nails.

standing position

Straighten, stretch, and naturally droop your arms. On formal occasions, don't put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, and don't make subconscious little moves. When a woman stands, her legs should be basically close together, and her feet should adapt to her clothes. When wearing a tight skirt, the heels are close together and the toes are separated in a "V" shape or a "Y" shape; When you wear a dress or cheongsam, you can distinguish your feet.

sitting position

When sitting, the movements should be light and slow, relaxed and natural. Don't drag chairs and stools at will, sit down from the left side of the chair and sit down calmly. When a woman sits in a skirt, put the back of the skirt together, cross her knees or legs backwards, keep her upper body straight, relax her shoulders, and put her hands on her knees or chair armrests. Men can divide their legs (generally not more than shoulder width) and naturally put their hands on their knees or chair armrests.

When you leave your seat, please let the high-ranking people leave first. When you leave your seat, move quietly and don't make any noise. Leave from the left side of the seat, stand well before walking, and keep your posture light and steady.

There is little information about politeness.

When you meet a teacher, be polite, salute and say hello without contradicting.

Between classmates, you, I and he help each other without beating and cursing.

I feel sorry for doing something wrong. Answer politely. No problem.

I love trees, cherish flowers and plants and beautify the environment.

The classroom is beautifully decorated, clean and tidy, and in a good mood.

Be conscious when eating lunch, and don't forget order and hygiene.

The ever-burning lamps and faucets will always be turned off when you have the heart. Don't waste them.

Large and small meetings should be disciplined, and the assembly team should be fast and quiet.

Regular exercise and regular exercise are the most precious things for healthy body and mind.

Be civilized, observe etiquette, and everyone strives to be a good child.

Good conduct, once cultivated, will benefit for life and be popular.

6. Little knowledge of manners and etiquette (fourth grade)

In life, we advocate "welcome the Olympic Games, stress civilization and cultivate a new style", so that the torch that lights the flame can be passed in our hearts. In fact, civilization is very close to us, very close, and close at hand. For example, covering the manhole cover, pushing the obstacles on the blind road, picking up the garbage on the ground, etc., are the embodiment of one civilization after another. Civilization is small, but as long as everyone does a good deed of civilization, it will make a big step forward for society. Every small step in society may be insignificant, but it is very useful. Every civilization is a kind of power, and countless civilizations together will produce an unparalleled power, which is like a seedling that has sprouted in everyone's heart.

A civilization is like a drop of water, and many civilizations are an ocean.

A civilization is like a lamp, illuminating a passion.

A civilization is like a single spark, which can start many civilizations.

Welcome the Olympics, be civilized, cultivate a new style, believe me.

7. What are the little knowledge of civilization?

1. Take the initiative to express gratitude in time to show sincerity.

2. Be honest and trustworthy, and never compromise on promises.

3, according to different objects, choose the appropriate way and method.

4, to grasp the degree of gratitude, and strive to be reasonable and appropriate.

5. Chinese New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year.

6. When mom and dad went out, they said, I wish mom and dad a safe journey and a smooth work.

7. Mom and Dad went out and said, "Mom and Dad are back. It's hard work.

8. When I say goodbye to my family: Don't worry, I will take good care of myself. If you are away from home for a long time, you should write or call to greet your family.

9. Greet your parents and elders when you go home.

Table manners

(1) At home:

1, please sit down first.

2. After the elder takes the bowl chopsticks first, he takes the bowl chopsticks himself.

3. When drinking soup, swallow your mouth, shut up and chew, chew slowly and try not to make a sound.

When eating, hold chopsticks in one hand and bowl in the other.

5, do not knock on the bowl, do not pee, do not pick vegetables.

6. When others add food to themselves, they should say "thank you". Say "thank you, I really don't need it" when you don't need it.

7. Take the initiative to add dishes to the elders.

8. Eat first and then "eat slowly".

9. After eating, help parents clean up the dishes and scrub the dining table.

8. Common sense of civilized manners

Thousands of years of civilization and etiquette have been passed down to this day, so China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a state of etiquette". The working people in our country have always attached importance to moral cultivation and civility, and have a long tradition of virtue. And a modern civilized person with high quality and culture must have good manners.

First of all, pay attention to personal gfd, manners, speech, dress, etc. For gfd, cleanliness is required: face, neck and hands should be cleaned; Hair should be cut on time and washed frequently; Nails are often cut; Pay attention to oral hygiene and don't chew gum in public; Take a bath and change clothes often. From the aspect of manners, we should be strict with ourselves from the aspects of standing, sitting, walking, demeanor and movements. The ancients once had an image summary of human posture: "Stand like a pine, walk like the wind, sit like a bell, lie like a bow." Beautiful standing posture gives people a feeling of being tall and straight and spirit; Sitting posture should be correct, generous and decent; Walk chest, shoulders and arms swing naturally, and the pace is moderate; The expression should show respect, understanding and goodwill to people, with a smile; Speak sincerely and kindly, use civilized language, be concise and decent. Dress should be clean, tidy and decent, conform to students' identity, and reflect the energetic and upward style of students in the new century.

Secondly, pay attention to the etiquette in public places. Etiquette in public places includes etiquette in schools, classrooms, dormitories, theaters and other places, as well as walking, asking for directions, taking a bus and shopping. Campus etiquette is very important. In classrooms and dormitories, we should observe public order and not make noise. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This embodies the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more distinct under the encirclement of etiquette. Classroom etiquette has a great influence on teachers' teaching, which is directly related to the honor and cohesion of a class and reflects the class spirit and appearance of this class.

Third, be modest and polite. Politeness means having a modest attitude in interpersonal communication. Respecting others, respecting others and being polite are the traditional virtues of China people. Politeness and comity can get along well with others and win their respect, friendship and help. Everyone has heard the story of "Kong Rong makes pears". Four-year-old Kong Rong gave the big pear to his younger brother, but he ate the small one himself. This shows that although young, there is no lack of manners.

"Harmony is good", "approachable", "Take Qi Mei as an example", "Let dates push pears" and "feel at home" all illustrate the politeness principle. When everyone comes to this world, learning to be a man begins with being polite. In society, people are always asked to be polite. Civilized etiquette not only brings happiness and harmony to others and society, but also creates a loving environment and brings happiness and warmth to oneself. Moreover, in modern social life, when China strode to the world, civility and politeness have become an indispensable part of the investment environment and national image.

Speaking of civilized manners requires everyone to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. In this way, our country can become a civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.

Goethe, a famous writer, said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Let's all improve our sense of etiquette and pay attention to etiquette. Only in this way can we gradually develop the habit of civilized manners and become a modern civilized person with temperament, grace and education.