"Double reduction" landing, how to cultivate children?

As parents, we will always be the first responsible person for children's growth. In the face of "double drop", what should we do and how should we do it?

Parents' responsibility

1. Double reduction, no reduction of responsibility.

Children's growth is inseparable from parents' teaching and family edification. Reducing the academic burden does not mean reducing the responsibilities of parents. Instead, it is necessary to test the responsibilities of parents. Good parents don't depend on their educational level, but on their sense of responsibility. Accompanying is the responsibility, nurturing is the responsibility, and setting an example is the responsibility. To fulfill the responsibilities of parents is to be responsible for the children's lives.

2. Double reduction, quality is not reduced

Double reduction, MINUS the total amount of homework, MINUS extracurricular training, learning returns to the classroom, but children in the same class have their own strengths, and under the universal education model, there will inevitably be differences in behavior. As people who know their children best, parents should pay more attention to cultivating their self-control, concentration and emotional management ability, and join hands with teachers to help their children grow up. We should know that children's learning is climbing a hill, and parents and schools need to "walk in both directions".

3. Double reduction, no reduction in growth

A child's childhood is only once, and the way to evaluate life is not just to win at the starting line, but to be the master after running a marathon. Since there is no extracurricular training, it is necessary to make use of children's spare time, spend more time with their parents and make reasonable plans and arrangements. Family is the main position of children's growth, and family education is the most important education in children's growth. A truly excellent parent does not lie in how many classes he has enrolled for his children, but in whether he really participates in their children's growth. Reducing the burden does not reduce the growth of children, because growth is a practice completed by parents and children.

The role of parents

Psychonutritionist-Give children a kind of spiritual strength.

Children's physical growth needs food, water, sunshine and air, and their psychological growth also needs adequate nutrition. Psychological growth includes the gradual improvement of cognition, emotion and personality, which requires patient companionship and cultivation.

When a child encounters troubles, can we make him willing to open his heart to himself? When a child encounters setbacks, can we find them in time and give him spiritual strength? Can we comfort and encourage children in time when they encounter problems? When a child makes a mistake, can we read his psychological code and care about his inner temperature? You know, it is more important to make children physically and mentally healthy than their grades.

Learning leaders-set a good example for children.

In the process of children's learning, parents are not supervisors, not correction teachers, but leaders. What we have to do is to make ourselves an example in the eyes of children.

The really best education is the behavioral level, and the way to make children really act is always to set an example. When parents fall in love with learning from the heart, when they grow up, children can naturally draw enough energy from it. Be a growing parent, and let yourself learn, grow, and play an important role in influencing children, changing children, and achieving children!

Life Mentor-Give Children the Direction of Life

Parents are the most important mentors in a child's life. A person's growth, without the guidance of a mentor, can not clearly understand the direction of life, let alone practical thinking and action.

When children have no goals, parents should do a good job in guiding them, help them to be ambitious, closely link their personal learning and growth with the destiny of the country, and help them find the endogenous motivation for growth.