Tiandao: Why do people with higher "level" dislike quarreling less?

The so-called high-level person is not superior to fame and fortune, but a kind of consciousness and realm of life.

In heaven, there is such a story:

Ding Yuanying went to the breakfast stall to eat wonton, and paid for it when ordering.

But when he left after eating wonton, the proprietress quickly stopped him and said, "You haven't given money yet."

Ding Yuanying first one leng, two people looked at each other for two seconds, word from her pocket money, after payment, magnificently came back in slippers, there is no excuse.

Later, the movie policeman who ordered with Ding Yuanying said, "When I first came here, I saw that people had already given money. Why do you want to ask others for money? "

The proprietress smiled awkwardly and said she forgot.

Many people ask: Why didn't Ding Yuanying explain that he donated money?

This is the question we are discussing today: why the higher the level, the less likely they are to argue.

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Disdain to argue, because it is not worth it.

From Ding Yuanying, I looked at my boss's wife for two seconds, indicating that he had already remembered to give money to wonton. If I give it again, I will give it twice.

He would rather pay for wonton twice than argue, because he disdains to argue with vendors.

What did Ding Yuanying's ex-wife say about him?

He will never quarrel with you, and every pore of him is permeated with condescending tolerance to secular culture, so tolerant that he disdains to reason with you.

To put it bluntly, it is disdainful to quarrel. If you see him arguing with you, it shows that he respects you and regards you as a person with the same level of thought.

For example, Ding Yuanying talked with Han Chufeng about traditional culture, and talked with Zen master about killing the rich and helping the poor, because he felt that these people were worthy of his debate.

He disdained to argue with the vendors because he thought it was a waste of his time.

He would rather spend more money to buy a bowl of wonton to make time for listening to music than waste time competing with vendors for money for a bowl of wonton.

For high-level people, time and the purity of ears are the most important.

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It is easier for high-level people to see the essence.

Summer insects don't talk about ice.

It is Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing who want expert Ding Yuanying to help the poor in Wang Miao village.

Three people joined the company, stepped into the road of starting a business and getting rich. Facing the lawsuit between the company and Lesheng, they quickly withdrew their shares, leaving the mess to Ouyang Xue.

Feng Shijie apologized and said hello to Ding Yuanying. Ye Xiaoming said angrily that he didn't know.

Liu Bing didn't come forward at all, because they asked for poverty alleviation, because they chickened out and shirked their responsibilities, and others would have been furious.

But Ding Yuanying didn't argue with them, let alone show anger. Why?

Because he had seen the essence of poverty alleviation before planning this matter.

The essence of poverty alleviation lies in the awakening of cognition and in getting rid of other important ideas.

Ding Yuanying has seen the essence of poverty, but the three of them can't see it at all.

Let me make an analogy. A person standing at the top of the mountain can see the essence of things and tell a person at the foot of the mountain what I see. Do they believe it? I won't believe it.

Similarly, if Ding Yuanying explains and argues with them, it is because you rely too much on important ideas that you are poor. Will Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming and Liu Bing believe it? I won't believe it.

So the reason why he doesn't argue is because he knows that low-level people can't see the essence of things clearly. Even if you tell them the truth, you are casting pearls before swine.

This is a sentence in the Tao Te Ching:

Staff sergeant listened and worked hard; The sergeant heard that living is death; The corporal laughed, but it was not enough just to listen and not laugh.

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Senior people

The realm of life is beyond the comprehension of ordinary people.

The death of Ray Xiao Dan made many people resent Ding Yuanying, especially Ray Xiao Dan's parents.

They think that Ding Yuanying didn't stop Ray Xiao Dan from carrying out dangerous tasks, which is the biggest sin, and he is even more unworthy to be Ray Xiao Dan's partner.

Therefore, Ray Xiao Dan's father wouldn't let anyone tell Ding Yuanying the address of Ray Xiao Dan's grave.

Why didn't Ding Yuanying argue from beginning to end?

Because Ding Yuanying knew that no one knew Rui Xiao Dan except himself, but no one who knew Rui Xiao Dan would ask Ding Yuanying why he didn't stop him.

We mentioned a key point. Does Ding Yuanying really care about Ray Xiao Dan?

After hearing the news of Rui Xiao Dan's sacrifice, Ding Yuanying vomited blood directly.

A person's greatest sadness is not crying, but wanting to cry without tears. A feeling of sadness is as heavy as a boulder, which makes him spit out one mouthful blood from his chest.

When Ray Xiao Dan was on a mission, the criminal pointed a gun at her forehead, which saved her from death because she was a rotten egg.

After that, Ding Yuanying began to persuade Ray Xiao Dan to give up his police career.

Ding Yuanying tried his best to make a well-founded analysis:

As long as you are a policeman, you have no right to avoid danger.

The country does not lack a female criminal police who will be eliminated sooner or later, but the society should have more talented people who can make great achievements.

He subtly inspired Ray Xiao Dan to go to the literary world and let her do something more meaningful and give up her police career.

Ding Yuanying did so much behind his back that Rui Xiao Dan gave up his dangerous career, but no one knew.

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Different people

Different areas of life

He would rather take responsibility than help Wang Miao Village to help the poor.

Not because of Ding Yuanying's high consciousness, but because of his love for Ray Xiao Dan.

Rui Xiaodan wanted a myth, so Ding Yuanying wrote a myth in Wang Miao Village.

In Ding Yuanying's eyes, his love for Ray Xiao Dan does not need to be explained to anyone or proved. As long as it is proved from a secular point of view, it will defile their love.

Then again, why didn't he stop Ray Xiao Dan?

Ding Yuanying had argued with Rui Xiao Dan several times before to make her give up her police career, but she still couldn't change her mind.

Because Rui Xiaodan loves the profession of police, she can find her own life value in this profession.

On the last phone call, Ray Xiao Dan just said goodbye. Ding Yuanying couldn't stop her being a policeman, not that he didn't want to.

In this world, some people show their value by fame and fortune, some people show their value by power, and some people show their value by their contribution to their families.

There are also some people who show their value by making contributions to society.

Different people, different realms of life.

The so-called high-level person is not superior to fame and fortune, but a kind of consciousness and realm of life.

Ray Xiao Dan is the embodiment of great love. She wants to help people, and she wants to help the poor in Wang Miao village, which shows her great love spirit everywhere.

This realm of life can only be understood but not expressed.

This is the third reason why Ding Yuanying doesn't want to argue and explain.

Feng Lun once said: Why can't you always argue with a bitch? Because bitches have no boundaries.

When one day, you gradually become unwilling to explain and argue everywhere, congratulations, which shows that your level is getting higher and higher.