What are the stresses and taboos of moving?

Moving is called "housewarming". The more important things we pay attention to, our new home may accompany us for a long time. Therefore, there is no harm in paying proper attention. From the professional and academic point of view, this paper tells the details and taboos of moving, from the beginning of moving to going to bed, and then to some taboos within three days after moving in, and tries to explain them clearly in order. It should be noted that this site has published some corresponding articles, the titles of which will be listed in the places mentioned, and you can browse directly from the blue font.

What are the stresses and taboos of moving?

1, pay attention to cleaning the old house.

If the clean owner aims at the old house, the new house generally does not need a clean house. What is a new house? A new house is a house bought from a developer. This kind of house is either a rough house or a hardcover house, and no one has lived in it without decoration. If no one has lived there, there is no need to clean the house deliberately. Of course, there is nothing wrong with cleaning up the house if you have to. An old house refers to a second-hand house, or you used to live by yourself, but later you rented it out and now you want to live by yourself. In this case, you need to make a clean house.

Simply put, a clean house is mainly to get rid of some gas fields left by others in the house. The aura of others in the house is not conducive to the fate of the owner. The aura of others may not be suitable for you, especially in a house that has been rented for a long time and has lived in several people. Everyone has some residual gas fields, and all kinds of gas fields become "miscellaneous gas". The so-called "pure yang, miscellaneous yin", then this also belongs to a kind of "yin | qi", so you should remove it after going in, so that the gas field in your home will gradually rise.

The whole process of house cleaning ceremony needs a special article to introduce. Friends in need can browse the article "How to Clean the House by Yourself" (the blue font can be directly entered), and the relevant matters, processes and required items are clearly written. The space of this article is limited, so I won't repeat it.

2. Pay attention to the auspicious day of moving.

Moving on a lucky day is a necessary option in the process of moving. Most people will choose to move on a lucky day, just like the "suitable move" or "no move" marked on the calendar. We can't say that this way is completely unreasonable. From an academic point of view, this approach is very one-sided. Regarding the auspicious day of moving marked by the yellow calendar (perpetual calendar), if you want to tell everyone why it is one-sided, you may have to tell two books. This involves the mutual dialectics of calendar, star-making calculation and star counting calculation. Let's just say that when our industry chooses an auspicious day to move, it will definitely not choose according to the marks on the perpetual calendar.

In the industry, the auspicious day for relocation is usually based on Greater Liu Ren or Qimen. There are two ways to choose an auspicious day for moving. The general content is that the relationship between people and houses is expressed by the branches of the month and the day. Generally, we will choose the day when the house (house) was born (beneficial to people). If the house is crowded, then the owner will not live smoothly, and it is easy to generate additional expenses because of the house. The auspicious days for moving provided by this site are all chosen by Liu Ren, so they can only be updated once a month. Generally, the auspicious day of moving next month is updated around the 20th of each month (it takes too long to push Liu Ren to work). Specifically, you can look at the column of "auspicious day for moving" on this website (input directly in blue font), and move according to the auspicious day provided above, which contains the taboo zodiac and the time of entering the house. Of course, you can also use the auspicious day in the perpetual calendar, which is fate.

3. Pay attention to the order of entering the door

The order of admission is divided into the order of admission of articles and the order of admission of family members. For the order of goods entering the door, you can refer to the article "Matters needing attention in moving" (you can enter directly from the blue font). Not only write down the order of the items entering the door, but also write down the specific items to be prepared, how to place them, what the family should bring when they enter the door, and so on. In short, the content of moving is basically written in detail.

The main points of the characters entering the door are: firstly, the host of the family should enter the door, secondly, the hostess should enter the door, thirdly, the children should enter the door (if there is an old man at home, the old man can follow the children in the door, if there are other relatives and friends, the relatives and friends will enter the door after the old man enters the door), and finally, the people from the moving company will enter the door. Only when you enter the door for the first time will you have this kind of pressure. Then, whether your family, friends or people from the moving company come in and out to move things, you won't have this pressure.

Generally, take your left foot first when you enter the door, because your left foot is Yang, and when you enter the door, Yang comes in. Yang has upward characteristics, so it represents prosperity. But then again, the question of which foot to take first was written by the way when someone asked me, so there is no need to pay attention to it in practice. In the process of moving, as long as the main process is right, trivial things like this are dispensable and not so useful. If you must pay attention, just do as we wrote.

4. Pay attention to the ceremony of entering the house

Similarly, the ceremony of entering the house is clearly written in the article "Matters needing attention in moving" (see the link in the previous paragraph), so you can refer to it yourself. What needs to be said is that the customs in every place are different, and some customs are just established rules, which are meaningless academically. For example, some places need to move a bundle of firewood when entering the house, because the homonym of "firewood" is "wealth", which is difficult to operate and unreasonable at the same time. This superstitious ceremony is not recommended. On the other hand, buildings are crowded now. Even if you can find a bundle of firewood to bring in, do you always leave it at home? I don't think so. Since it won't, we should throw away the firewood. Does it mean that you have lost your "(firewood) wealth"?

In ancient times, there were pots and stoves for burning firewood at home. After the firewood is moved in, it can be used (for cooking). Now it's all anger. You have no place to carry a bundle of firewood in. Dirty is bad for Feng Shui. There are many similar unreasonable customs in life, and there are many places to pay attention to. Adapting to the times means adapting to the times, not being too rigid.

What are the taboos within three days of moving?

1, taboo from customer to customer.

"Turning from customer to customer" refers to two aspects: in some places, guests will come to congratulate or help when moving. What needs attention at this time is that your family members should be advanced, as I have already said, so I won't go into details in this respect. There is another aspect that needs attention. If you plan to invite guests to dinner at home after you officially move, then the guests should have the status of guests, the host should sit in the position of the host, and the subject and object should be clear. It is forbidden for guests to sit in the host's position, but the host is sitting in the guest's position. This is called "anti-customer first", which is easy to suppress the host's luck.

2, taboo guests in the main house

In some places, after moving into a house, guests will stay and stay. No problem, they can stay. However, guests can only live in the guest room, not the master bedroom. The first three days, the owner's room can only be occupied by the owner, and outsiders are not allowed to enter. The new house has just moved in, and the owner's bed wants the owner to sleep. This is the so-called "establishing the owner". If a guest stays, it's not appropriate to think about it. Anhui, Zhejiang and Jiangsu in the south of China are very particular, and generally don't let guests sleep in their host's bed. Many places in the north are not particular about it, and it is easy to make such taboos. We must attach importance to it.

3, taboo to sleep during the day

It is forbidden to sleep during the day within three days of moving, which means that except for lunch break, work and rest should be normal and regular. Don't sleep late at night, don't get up during the day and sleep until noon the next day; Some young people don't sleep at night but sleep during the day. Because this kind of work and rest is called "inversion of yin and yang", we can't bring this "inversion" gas field to the new house, especially in the first three days, the gas field of the new house gradually formed, and the house followed people, and what kind of people lived in it. What kind of aura will the house have? You can imagine how bad life would be if you lived in a house and reversed Yin and Yang for you.

4, taboo strangers sharing a room

It is forbidden for outsiders (couples) to crash within three days of moving. Outsiders refer to guests. As mentioned before, guests can't sleep in the host's bed. In addition, if the husband and wife come together, even if the guests sleep in the guest room, they should not share the same room (crash). However, whether the husband and wife slap in the face in the room or not, the host can't interfere. You can't say to the guests: don't slap in the face at night. Therefore, guests (especially couples) who come within three days of moving will generally let them sleep separately. If your house is small, get a room in a nearby hotel.

Someone asked, is it forbidden for housekeepers and couples to share the same room within three days of moving? In fact, they are not taboo. Don't take slapping as a taboo. Housekeepers can, but outsiders can't.

5, taboo cleaning the house

The saying that it is forbidden to clean the house within three days of moving is handed down from the older generation. In the past, houses were bungalows, and the debris on the ground was directly swept out of the door. People think that this will also sweep away the "gas" at home, so it is forbidden to clean the house within three days of moving. Actually, it's not like this. The so-called cleaning refers to the cleaning without making a fuss. Just moved into a new house, how many people are happy? At this time, people should relax, make the whole person active, and do physical labor properly, not too much. Being too busy cleaning the house means that you will be busy in the future. The key is that this kind of busyness is not for making money and career, so busyness is for trifles.

In terms of cleaning, you can do this: first, clean the house one or two days or a few days before the ceremony, and make the house clean. This is also a sign that when you enter the house, you will enter a clean home. After moving in, as long as life is bound to produce garbage or something, mopping and washing the floor are normal things, so there is no taboo. As for the trash can, it must be cleaned once a day. Clean, green and refreshing is good feng shui. In some places, it is forbidden to throw garbage within three days of moving, and it is considered a good thing to wait until it stinks. It doesn't make sense.

6. Taboo disputes

No quarreling within three days of moving. Frankly speaking, it is necessary to have a harmonious atmosphere when moving into a new home. Noisy omen is not good. People who have not lost their temper may not have the same family values. At this time, everyone needs more tolerance and empathy, and mutual understanding will pass. We can't give any effective methods for this. There are many uncontrollable factors. Let's just say that the husband and wife communicated in advance. For the sake of luck, both of them restrained their temper properly.