Rural mother's request daughter: "you must be 250,000 bride price, to your brother to get married" how do you think?

On the issue of bride price, in many rural areas are still following the old traditions, nowadays the bride price in the countryside has risen, and even reached a point where many families can not afford the bride price, in addition to the requirements of the male party to have a house and a car, an open mouth is one hundred and twenty thousand.

High bride price is a vice, I very much do not advocate, marriage should be a sacred thing, because the feelings in place, so choose to get married, but the high bride price is hindering the marriage of this sacred thing, it seems not to get married to get married, but to get married for money.

Obviously in the countryside, each family actually does not have a few dollars, why is the bride price so high? On the contrary, in the city, there is no such high bride price, the bride price is only given symbolically, in order to get a good luck.

With such a high bride price, how can a man in the countryside get married? Many parents for their children's marriage, but also anxious anxious, tear down the east wall to make up for the west wall, take their daughter's bride price to give their son a wife, have a daughter will be hard to ask for the bride price, of course, have a son is also obedient to give, this is also very common thing.

Lin Ten is also an ordinary rural woman, has a younger brother than her eight years younger, is now 33 years old, is still single, a few years ago Lin Ten's mother put down the word: "want to marry my daughter, you must give 250,000 bride price, or do not think about it."

Lin Ten has been instilled with this idea by her mother since she was 20 years old, your brother marrying his daughter-in-law, to give the bride price, and this money, must come from the bride price from you, other people do not give you more than 200,000 bride price, your brother's bride price can do? So, you have to find me more than two hundred thousand bride price.

Lin Tian had brought a boyfriend home before, and as soon as he came home, he was scared away by her mother, who opened her mouth and asked, "How much dowry do you intend to give to my family, Tian Tian?" She used her finger to compare twenty, "If you don't have this amount, you guys just don't talk about it, I won't agree to it." , her boyfriend saw that her mother was such a person, immediately cut off contact with her.

After Timothy's two boyfriends, both of whom were unhappy because of the bride price issue, Timothy advised his mother, "Mom, you want to find a man who is good to me, but you also want so much bride price, isn't it a bit too much?"

She said, "Daughter, you can't be so selfish. You're the only daughter in our family, so if you don't ask for more dowry, how can your brother get married? Anyway, your brother is still young, let's wait a little longer, we will always wait for someone who is willing to pay such a large bride price."

She also had no interest in falling in love anymore, she was uncomfortable with the idea of asking for a bride price herself, and if her mother hadn't gotten in the way because of the bride price issue, she might have gotten married a long time ago.

Now 33 years old, there is no suitable around, excellent men will not look at the older leftover women, go to the blind date, dating object as soon as they heard the bride price problem to find all kinds of excuses to leave, 33-year-old Tenney, and no longer have the qualifications to pick on others.

In order to save the bride price money for the son, sacrificing the daughter's happiness, take the daughter's marriage as a deal, such parents, not qualified parents at all, you around such a thing?