Very family-oriented good men can also betray

1000 marriage case: very good family man, will also betray the family

Good man is also betrayal

Counseling 1,000 marriage case, I have a shocking discovery: usually very good family man is also betrayal of the family, and this kind of man once an affair, will become very ruthless, want to let him return to the woman must do this.

Married to such a man, the woman will initially be very happy, he loves his wife and family, the child was born will also take care of the child, which will allow the woman to produce a kind of their own is not a previous life to save the galaxy, can meet this kind of perfect good man of the illusion.

However, as if there was no warning, the man began to have an affair, and he did more than the general scum to do to the absolute, he began to not go home, often cell phone shutdown, and even very determined to divorce you.

This time the woman will often fall into confusion and despair, in front of this man how and before the judgment of the two, they are not where to do a good job of provoking his anger.

In fact, the real reason is not that you are not good enough, you are still the original you, but he continued from the original family husband and wife to get along with the model has been revealed.

The family of origin of the intergenerational inheritance

1, this kind of man as a child, often experienced one parent left home, no longer go home, leaving him by the other side of the sole support.

The man who grows up in such a family feels lost because he does not get complete love.

He always asks where his mother or father went, but usually gets no real answer, which gives him a deep sense of inferiority and insecurity, so he starts to look for them all the time, feeling that his life has lost its direction.

The parent who is caring for the child alone tends to show anger and stubbornness in his life, which is largely passed on to the child, who grows up hating him.

"Inner child" fulfilled

2. Such boys are usually more precocious, better at taking care of the home, and especially good at being considerate of their caretakers. However, due to the long time in the lack of family upbringing, after entering into marriage, he will be in a very contradictory psychological state.

On the one hand, he firmly said that he would take care of his wife and children, not to let them go back to their old ways, on the other hand, he has long accepted from the inside the old model of one party to take care of the family, so he is good when he is especially responsible for the family; bad times, you can be heartless to abandon their wives and children.

Meeting this kind of man, really let the woman too angry, obviously wrong is not their own, but the consequences of the woman to bear.

In fact, this kind of problem can also be dealt with, we have to grasp the bottom of the marriage needs, so that the other side of the "inner child" to be satisfied, it will no longer give you marriage trouble, your intimate relationship will undergo a great change, the problem will also be solved.