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What are the performances of husband nurses?

What is the typical performance of a foolish and filial husband?

1, Xiao Yu's husband, actually didn't regard his wife as his family at all. Once your mother and your wife have an argument, even if your mother is at fault, you should cover up the fault for your mother and unite your mother to deal with your wife as an "outsider". In fact, when a woman marries a man, most women are more or less like outsiders in the man's house, if not the other way around. Living with her husband and in-laws, not related by blood. If the husband doesn't cherish himself and is partial to his mother, that woman is really unaccompanied in this family. If the husband really regards his wife as his family, he will not be so partial to his mother, and he will be able to straighten his mind and fairly evaluate the right and wrong between his mother and his wife. And husbands who don't know filial piety often don't regard their wives as their own family.

2, never take care of his wife's feelings. Husbands who don't know filial piety actually have low IQ and EQ. At least he is stupid in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If he doesn't play the regulatory role he should play correctly, it will only make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and worse.

Xiao Yu's husband only cares about protecting his mother and never considers his wife's feelings when dealing with the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Even if the mother is unreasonable to her wife, she still sprinkles salt on the wound regardless of the feelings of wronged her. In fact, it is understandable that the old man rejects his daughter-in-law. After all, their precious son will eventually alienate himself. With his own family, he is somewhat psychologically unbalanced and lonely.

Ma Baonan 10 Function:

First, tell mom everything.

One of Ma Baonan's characteristics is that he has to tell his mother everything, even small trifles and setbacks, and even coquetry. This is a sign of weakness. Although it is not impossible to discuss things with your mother, in fact, you should communicate with your parents more about many things, because the experience and knowledge of your elders can help you answer questions and give correct suggestions. But if it goes too far, it's a bit like a baby boy.

Second, let mom decide everything.

It's not that Ma Baonan is bad, it depends on the situation. Some horse-haired men are very filial, and they often ask questions on many important matters and ask their mothers for advice. This is a good thing. But some Ma Maonan has gone too far, letting his mother decide her own marital affairs, as if to help her find a partner. If their mother doesn't like it, they certainly shouldn't, so we should think it over carefully.

Third, I often talk about my mother.

It's good to mention your mother once in a while, which represents your feelings. But Ma Baonan likes to talk about his mother all day, always talking about my mother, or thinking about how my mother used to be. Although I have to listen to my mother, I am also a bit of a mother-in-law.

Fourth, I have to rely on my mother to take care of me.

Baonan's mother likes to depend on her mother for everything. Doing housework or something must be a mess. When do you have to rely on your mother to take care of you? It's ridiculous to have to rely on mom to help wash underwear. It should be impossible for such a man to cook. Ma Baonan was taken care of by his mother since childhood, so he doesn't have to think much about taking care of you.

Fifth, you can't live without your mother.

Some horse-haired men choose to live with their mothers after entering the society, especially when they are not married and have children. Once this kind of baby boy leaves his mother and faces the society alone, it is easy to fall into panic. Girls should think carefully when they meet such a man. If his mother is not satisfied with you, you can only leave at once!