What is the Confucian view of love?

The three advantages of Confucian love are loyalty, introversion and indifference. Although the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl can only meet on July 7th every year, they don't give up on each other because of this, and they still pray for that moment. I think it is this eternal loyalty that makes the story full of charm and spread for a long time. "Introversion is an important aspect. The sage said,' see no evil, see no evil, don't listen if you are indecent'. Ceremony is one of the four ends of Confucianism, so Confucianism is more restrained and reserved in expressing feelings. From the legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, it can be seen that they don't always talk much about love, but rather express their love for life. Another advantage is' it doesn't matter, it makes sense'. There is a saying in Qin Guan's "Queqiao Fairy" that "tenderness is like water, courtesy is like a dream, and you can bear to go home from the bridge. "The author seems to be disgusted that lovers get together less and leave more, but with a change of pen, the author added,' If the two feelings last forever, why bother to be there sooner or later?' This shows that although Confucian traditional love is not too passionate and thrilling, it is not limited by time and space, which makes love particularly meaningful. "................... has three shortcomings: firstly, he is not free and unwilling; secondly, he is so-called fit; thirdly, he is unknown love.