A short story about being responsible

Her name is Wu Hongchan, and she was born in the poorest village in Luoyang City's Xin'an County. She was born with one hand missing, and her left hand has always been a bone bag. She also suffered from polio, and her right leg was so atrophied that it was hanging off the ground. Her father died when she was six years old, and her mother was a fool. She did not go to school one day, crutches cattle and sheep. 19 years old and got a strange disease, headache, every day, small pain, big pain is from a few months to dozens of days of seizures, seizures, like a madman hit the wall, but there has been no money to see. Later, the silly mother of a serious illness also went away, she kept mourning for four months, just in the village are worried about her, she locked the kiln door, crutches, from the Yu mountain walked to Luoyang, walked for three days.

In Luoyang, the work is not easy to find, a few days later, she chose to shine shoes. The first day out of the stall, she put her in the mountain villages, in the home said countless times said again: "God gave me a life, I can not die, two can not reach for food!" However, not long after, one day, she was polishing shoes, the disease again, fell to the ground convulsions, two hands holding the head, accompanied by heart-rending screams, one by one, touching the corner of the wall, the blood flowed straight! A colleague sent her to the hospital. The hospital checked out two deadly diseases: brain tumor, incidental depression! The symptoms are special, not to mention the lack of money, or money hospitals can not be cured, the two diseases have to support themselves! When the pain passes, she immediately smiled and laughed again, and said to all the people that nothing is fine, how many years is this over!

The disease is more and more frequent, always let a lot of people around to see, she begged a few peers, let them in her illness to send her back to her rented hut. The only way they could help her was to do so. Sent a few times, there is a white hair, white bearded old man to find the shoeshine stall to come, is a will acupuncture and massage of the old Chinese medicine. From then on, she went to the old man once a day for acupuncture. Shoeshine a day, the afternoon to close the stall to go to tie, from a few needles to dozens of roots, has been tied to more than a hundred, a 6 hours. The old man did not charge a penny, the old man said he had never seen such a girl who could endure pain.

On that day, the old man said with tears in his eyes while sticking the needle: "Child, you can't stand whoever you put this disease on! You know how much more pain you have to endure for this life?" She smiled and said, "I have to suffer! It's a matter of life and death!" The old man was shocked, she laughed again and said, "I have taken up a life on earth, so I have to be responsible, so I can't leave this life alone .

Responsible for their own

In the global top 500, some people have done statistics, in the past 20 years, from the United States Military Academy at West Point graduated from the chairman of the board of more than 1,000, more than 2,000 vice-chairman of the board of directors, general manager or director of this level there are more than 5,000.

There may not be any business school in the world that can produce so many top talent. Why isn't it business schools that produce business leaders, but West Point? We can look at the standards that West Point requires of its students - punctuality, discipline, rigor, integrity, and rigidity. These are the most basic qualities that any good business requires of its leaders, and the qualities that are most worth tapping into and cultivating.

In contrast, business schools teach students more about business knowledge and experience, and less about cultivating one's most basic human qualities. Perhaps because of this, it is West Point, not these business schools, that produces the best senior business leaders.

Success is not necessarily linked to a person's character, heart, knowledge, qualities, or even ethnicity or race. There is only one thing that is **** the same in successful people - and that is a deep sense of responsibility for themselves.

That is to say, all the world's best people have a **** the same characteristics: responsible for their own - this is the implementation of the characteristics of the talent, the results mean that if you want to get a person with the ability to perform, then the first element is "to see if he is really responsible for their own". The result means that if you want to get someone with executive talent, then the first thing you need to do is "see if they are truly accountable.

What does it mean to be "truly responsible for yourself"? A person who is responsible for himself has three important characteristics: first, keeping promises; second, results-oriented; third, never say die. It is these three characteristics that make a responsible person also a person with the ability to execute.

Similarly, what kind of person is not an executive? Most smart people are not executives, because they spend their lives looking for better solutions, and are seldom able to do something to the end like Forrest Gump. Why did Forrest Gump, a person with low IQ, become a champion in ping-pong, a champion in running, and a top performer in everything he did, and what did he rely on? Relying on is obsession.

And smart people do the most lack of persistence. Smart people are always looking for shortcuts because they are smart, spend a lot of time on the road or looking for shortcuts, there is no one thing to do in the end; on the other hand, smart people tend to be favored in the community, so once they encountered difficulties or objections, it is not like the "persistent" people adhere to, but choose to escape.

Love is to be responsible for you

A young man came to the United States, working for a year, he enrolled in the University of Southern California master's degree, did not get in. The next year he took the test, and still didn't get in. The third year, he still didn't get in. He began to feel frustrated, desperate and restless.

Soon after, his domestic girlfriend came to the US, and she got a scholarship directly to Yale. While she started school, he continued to wander the streets with nothing to do.

Soon she said yes to his proposal, and because of financial constraints, they didn't invite anyone, just a handful of people at a roadside bistro, and that night they checked into a small hotel.

Soon after, he got a job at an insurance company and made ends meet.

But then, after attending a training program called "Millionaire," he was "encouraged" by a financial expert named Spears to hand in his resignation. He was determined: no matter what, I do not want to go back to the position, my life will no longer have any boss!

After he made this irreversible decision, his wife said lightly: "I hope you are making a rational decision, you have to be responsible for yourself. You have to understand that if you keep hanging around like this, our relationship will be in trouble."

Then, after those darkest, hardest days. In his sixth year after coming to the US - 1991 - he earned his first million dollars through speaking, writing and investing, and by 2003 his personal assets had reached $100 million.

This man is the Chinese-American billionaire Mr. Wan Jiang.

Wan Jiang said: "Why did my wife marry me at that time when I was poor? When I asked her this question later, she just said lightly: I felt that you were depressed in those days, and I hoped that there was one thing that could make you take responsibility.

He also said: "After the resignation, I have not complained about my wife's approach to add insult to injury, although she is putting pressure on me, but I understand her state of mind, she needs a sense of security, I have to take responsibility for her."

Wan Jiang's success proves that people's most outstanding successes are often made in the case of adversity, the pressure on the mind, and even physical pain, can become a spiritual stimulant.

Yes, to love you is to make you responsible, for yourself, for your loved ones, and for your loved ones. If responsibility torments a person, it also enables one to accomplish extraordinary greatness.