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The feeling of girls sharing a room for the first time, the skills of husband and wife sharing a room, how did they share a room in ancient times?

How did you share a room in ancient times? In ancient times, not everything lagged behind modern times. In ancient times, one thing was indispensable, and that was sexual intercourse. But how did ancient people share a room? If you want to know, you must read the following article for everyone to see.

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How did you share a room in ancient times?

In ancient China, sexual mysticism attached great importance to these behaviors and measures. It is believed that before sexual intercourse, there must be a slow, gentle and orderly stage of mutual caressing and frolicking, so as to make the mood harmonious and sexual desire mobilized. For example, in the medical bamboo slips of Mawangdui Han Tomb in Changsha, China, it was thought that sexual intercourse was to achieve "equality between men and women", that is, the man's penis presented four symptoms: fullness, erection, firmness and long-term fever; When women reach the "five desires", that is, kissing, hugging, touching sensitive areas, sucking the tongue and lips, and gently shaking, five signs of sexual desire can be produced, such as flushing on the face and neck, breast augmentation, slight sweating on the nose, oral lubrication, leucorrhea, dry throat and saliva. If the two sides achieve "four directions" and "five desires" respectively, they can live a comfortable life and satisfy their sexual desire during formal sexual intercourse.

In another China ancient sexual sutra, Fingering in the Jade Room, it is also believed that this dramatic action should be calm and serene, and you can touch and stroke the elbow fossa, armpit, upper scapula, neck, eyes, cheeks, then clavicle fossa, massage and stroke the breast, and pass through the upper abdomen, navel, abdomen (three inches below the navel), pubic mound, inner thigh, vulva and vulva. The book also points out that this kind of "going home" before sexual intercourse is not against human nature, but also can prolong life, which can also be said to be a kind of sexual pleasure. This kind of experience of the ancients is very noteworthy.

In addition, in addition to the above-mentioned pre-sexual frolicking, the ancients also advocated spiritual and emotional adaptation. According to the secret decision of Yufang, at this time, both sides should coordinate their sexual desire and emotions, and they should not be agitated, angry, jealous, angry or upset.

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Matters needing attention of ancient roommates

In ancient times, touching in the same room was necessary before sexual intercourse, because sexual desire and sexual excitement between men and women were often out of sync. Generally speaking, the man's sexual impulse often appears quickly because of visual stimulation; This woman is relatively slow, but sensitive to tactile stimuli. Of course, the opposite situation can also occur, that is, the woman has sexual requirements and the man does not. All of the above situations need a stage of frolicking and flirting.

In the Secret of the Jade House, there was an incisive exposition on this. When husband and wife have sexual intercourse, if the woman is unhappy because she has not touched her lust, the vulva will not move and the vulva will not overflow and lubricate; If Fang has no sexual requirements, the penis is not erect and hard. All these hinder the smooth progress of sexual intercourse.

Before having sex, couples should first induce and urge each other's lust. If the man can't feel each other, the woman is unhappy and slow to respond; If the woman can't touch each other, the man's penis won't erect and won't take the initiative. In this kind of "secret love" situation, if the husband and wife can't coordinate and harmonize, and can't induce each other in essence, then when they have sex in a hurry and behave rudely, they are more likely to arouse each other's resentment and it is difficult to achieve good things. If two people have the same sexual desire before sexual intercourse, then the contraction of vulva at this time can stimulate the man's penis and make it stronger and bigger; Then promote the overflow and lubrication of vulva, so that both sides can get the satisfaction of sex.