What kind of Chinese parent is a typical Chinese parent?

The truth is that they are not. It is the following that makes it so.

What are "Chinese parents"?

1. Unrealistic expectations

The birth of a child, for a family, is the hope and future of the whole family, the parents put their own unfulfilled aspirations all in the young child, they do not want the child to go their own way, always hope that the child can get out of their own ability to a shining road, can fly.

2. Parental vanity

More often than not, children are used to satisfy parental vanity, children with good grades, can study in prestigious schools, the parents feel particularly dignified, they enjoy being in the crowd to be envious of the eyes of the relatives have bragged about the capital, this kind of vanity is the parents urged the child growth of the driving force.

3. Don't know how to respect your child

Chinese parents always feel that they should be respected in front of the child, the child should be unconditionally obedient, or else it is an offense, they can reprimand the child at will, regardless of the occasion, depending on their own moods, and will not think twice about the language of the child, and put the child's self-esteem on the ground, which is how to educate the child, completely! do not know how to respect the child.

While Chinese parents don't think about the child's heart at all when dealing with his or her mistakes, and their lectures are all about destroying the child's heart, they are more than willing to give unconditional support to the child in his or her own way.