Parents' feelings after reading Disciple Rules

Parents' feelings after reading Disciple Rules

Parents' words and deeds are heard by children, so parents should also do a good job in ideological and moral study. Below, I sorted out the feelings of parents after reading Disciples Rules. Welcome to read the reference!

After reading Disciple Rules, I feel that my parents have realized a China traditional culture, which is extensive and profound. I don't know its depth without in-depth research. I feel more and more ignorant, the more I learn, the more superficial I feel, and gradually find myself greedy but not refined. Do I understand at this point? In-depth research Long-term fumigation The truth has also confirmed that I should use the rules of my disciples to regulate the behavior of my children and me, and be a virtuous and talented person. Today's children are confused, bored, empty and aimless. A child's mind has no sustenance, and it is impossible to be stable and full without sustenance. It is our top priority to find a spiritual home for children and give them a sustenance. What kind of spiritual home to build and what kind of nutrients to infuse children and their own hearts are all in front of us. China traditional culture is the best machine tool and nutrient, while traditional culture? Core? Is it? Filial piety? , the foundation of filial piety. ? Filial piety? Is it moral education? Not at all? What should we do to build a home for children's hearts? Filial piety? Give priority to training? Let the child's heart be attached to it? Filial piety? Where to? Filial piety? Grow up healthily in our family.

1. Promote disciple's rules and filial piety among children. Among the moral education books of traditional culture in China, Disciples Rules and Filial Piety Scriptures are the best books to cultivate children's integrity. When children are studying Disciples' Rules, they should study specially. From reciting, copying, explaining, practicing and sharing, we can concentrate on our study and study sincerely. People often say that good and evil are just a thought, and you can develop good thoughts. When you do something wrong, these good thoughts will always remind you not to do bad things. In the long run, if you do more good deeds and less evil deeds, your heart will be clean. There's a saying in "Learning from Your Own Experience"? It is a gentleman to do one more thing. ? Learn the disciple rules for a long time, practice according to the requirements of the disciple rules, share your feelings after practice, listen to others' sharing, find out your own gap, and Nuri is equal to others. Let our spiritual home have more healthy and positive spirit.

Second, we should relax our mentality in learning disciples' rules, which is an important mentality in learning traditional culture. With sincere respect and gratitude, the mentality will be relaxed and everything in the rules of discipleship can be accommodated. Don't treat the disciple rules in a separate manner, doubt the disciple rules, and judge the disciple rules with colored eyes before opening the disciple rules. How can we deeply understand and comprehend its essence and how can we distinguish it? It can be seen that mentality is very important. If you are square, impartial, study hard, have doubts, record at any time, and find a famous teacher to answer, you can get the correct meaning, really learn well and feel with your heart, then you can find the essence and analyze the dross. Only in this way can we really learn Disciples Rules and apply them to children's moral education.

Third, when promoting Disciples' Rules, we should be able to overcome obstacles and stick to the right things. Sometimes, when I am implementing the Disciples' Rules, I will hear my parents' suspicious voices and say? Disciple rules are too rigid? It taught my children Confucianism, and children have no personality. Where did they get their creativity and sense of national competition? How will they survive in society in the future? And so on, in fact, these problems are just that parents don't know the rules of disciples deeply, really understand the rules of disciples, and study the rules of disciples deeply, so you won't have these problems. In fact, Disciples Rules is a classic and a good habit to cultivate children. There is no other meaning, such as: old people stand, young people don't sit, old people sit, and life is sitting. ? This is to cultivate children's habit of treating others, such as mourning for three years often leads to grief. ? This is to cultivate children's respect and gratitude, which is actually what we often call love cultivation. Although our ancestors are not here, we should cherish their kindness. You don't even remember your ancestors. You said you had love. Isn't that a lie? So, if you don't understand its true meaning and essence, it's not too late to study first and then choose. Disciple Rules does not take away the children's personality, but embellishes it, and then the children will be less greedy, less emotional and less arrogant. But to know how to be a man, to know how to be a man, to be sincere, to be honest, to cultivate one's morality, to have a harmonious family, and then to have a peaceful world. The connotation of this personality is much better than publicity, and the children's future achievements will be much greater.

Fourth, grasp the core of Disciples Rules? Filial piety? Educate children, open children's filial piety, and all kindness is opened. Are you alone? Filial piety? Your own family? Filial piety? Others, that's impossible. Imagine that you don't even love your parents, and you can still say that you have love. Isn't that self-deception When filial piety is opened, gratitude and respect will be opened, gratitude and love will be opened, and benevolence can be practiced. And think about benefiting others and constantly passing on love.

Fifth, let Disciple Rules become the spiritual home of children, let us cultivate our virtues in this beautiful home and achieve our happy life.

Parents' feelings after reading Di Zi Gui 2 Learning Di Zi Gui is not only a process of personal cultivation, but also a process of ideological sublimation. It is very necessary for a person's growth. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world.

It tells us that we should respect and honor our parents first. It was our parents who gave birth to us and raised us. Without parents, there would be no us. Is there such a sentence in Disciples Rules? Love me, why is it difficult to be filial? Hate me, be filial. ? It means: whether parents and relatives love you or not, you should be filial to your parents and relatives and never forget your parents' kindness. How can you love others if you don't love and honor your parents?

As the saying goes, good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. If a person is not filial to his parents and is not harmonious with his brothers, sisters and friends, then his children will see that one day his children will go to school, and their behavior will not only affect themselves, but also affect their lives. I remember a little joke. An old man was old and his hands often trembled. His son and daughter-in-law do not like him. Once when he was eating, the old man broke a bowl. The old man's son and daughter-in-law are very angry and angry with the old man. Since then, old people have been allowed to eat in wooden bowls. One day, the couple found their son playing with wood and asked him what he was doing. The son said that he was making bowls for them and would give them when they were old. This story tells us that the best and most effective way to educate children is to set an example.

If everyone can do it, our harmonious society can be expected.

After reading Disciples Rules, parents realized that all three people were alive and their personalities were not born. Must be cultivated from an early age. Disciples Rules requires us to correct our moral quality first. These include filial piety, filial piety, courtesy, benevolence and loyalty. After doing this, it has taught us some learning methods, not only to study hard, but also to practice, so that we can really read good books and become useful talents. After reading Disciple Rules, I measured my character. There is indeed a certain gap.

In filial piety, I now think of my past. Although I have never done anything important to my parents, I have never done much filial piety to them. On the contrary, they have been obedient to me, taking care of everything I want and trying their best to satisfy me. Parents think that everything they do for themselves is right. Sometimes, parents care too much about themselves and tremble, but they scold them and hate them. What a mistake! I have many brothers and sisters and often don't care about my parents' feelings. I argued because of some minor problems. How sad my parents were when they saw it. What should I do now that I am a child and a parent? On the one hand, as a child, what should be said in the disciples' rules? Don't slow down when parents call; Parents, don't be lazy. Parents teach, you must listen; Parents' responsibilities must be obeyed. ? At the very least, we can bravely face those parents who are struggling to raise their own adults. On the other hand, as a child's mother, it is also the greatest benefit for parents to correctly guide their children to read Disciples Rules, let them taste the true meaning slowly and imperceptibly, develop good conduct from an early age, and lay a good foundation for their healthy growth in the future.

Besides, I am interested in what is mentioned in the book? Be lenient and work hard. Time's up, traffic jam. If you have any questions, just follow the notes. Just ask, ask the exact meaning. ? These words touched me the most and benefited a lot. Because these are also the places where I do the least in my study and work. For example, sometimes the work assigned by the leader always drags on and doesn't want to do it until the last minute. Even if there is, so much. Sometimes I don't write down questions I don't understand, I don't study them in depth, I don't look up information, and I don't really ask others for advice, so I'm vague. I often make these two kinds of mistakes, which are usually inefficient and even criticized by leaders. After reading Disciples Rules, I finally understood my own shortcomings. If I can do what it says in the future, I believe my work efficiency will be through a flight of stairs.

In my opinion, if a person is alive, he should stress morality and taste, so as to win the appreciation of others. The truth in Disciples Rules is the most basic common sense to teach people ethics. In the future, I will read Disciples Rules again and again to learn the truth of being a man and doing things, and really cultivate the character of a gentleman. This can not only build a healthy and harmonious society, but also improve one's self-cultivation. Why not?