What are the ways for couples to get along?

1. Be honest with each other, and love is a force that makes people work hard. Husband and wife are first of all a kind of ideological and emotional harmony, a kind of mutual compensation in psychological activities, which makes both sides have a warm and coordinated healthy psychology. Therefore, it is more pleasant for husband and wife to treat each other honestly, respect each other and care for each other than giving gifts.

2, frequent exchanges between husband and wife should often sit down and exchange views, communicate ideas, talk about emotions. Especially in times of adversity, what is most needed is the comfort of relatives. A word of sympathy and an encouraging look will reduce the psychological pressure of the other party, enhance the confidence and strength to overcome difficulties and truly see the truth in adversity.

3. Respect each other's personality characteristics. A couple, even childhood friends, still have their own personality characteristics. Some husbands are restless, wandering outside for many years, and can't stay at home. The wife is quiet and socially narrow. I hope her husband stays at home with her all day. Every time her husband comes back after getting well, his wife looks unhappy and sometimes loses a little temper. If the husband can't stand it, he may quarrel. An understanding wife or husband should respect each other's personality, don't impose his will on each other, leave some free space for each other and allow them to have their own social circle. In this way, marriage is not a kind of imprisonment, but not only giving full play to their individual characteristics, but also a warm family attached to each other.

4. Husband and wife should learn to be patient. Chekhov said: "The most important thing in married life is patience." When the other person loses his temper or sends out a provocative signal, it is best to take the form of patience and avoidance, or put yourself in the other person's shoes to help him get rid of it, instead of being influenced by the other person's emotions and making his mood very bad.

5, take the initiative to undertake housework after marriage, there are some big things to discuss, but more is the daily chores of daily necessities. The equal communication between husband and wife is manifested in sharing housework and taking the initiative to participate in housework, which is the concrete manifestation that the husband loves his wife and the wife understands her husband. If you need each other's help, you'd better change the mandatory "do it" into a kind "help".

6. influence each other with your own warmth. For example, on rainy days, the husband took the initiative to take an umbrella to pick up his wife at the station; The husband reads or writes under the lamp at night, and the wife quietly sends a cup of hot tea and hot milk. This practice of enhancing feelings often makes the other person's grievances disappear.