Why oppose "early love"

1, the social system does not allow, not allowed for two reasons: ① is the state to train you to meet the needs of the country (personality formation in this period); ② is the protection of young people, in favor of family and social harmony (abortion, self-mutilation ...). .

2, the results of exam-oriented education, the college entrance exams fierce competition does not allow teenagers to waste time and energy on things unrelated to the study and examination (you early love will also make other students want to early love).

3, the family's expectations, there are two reasons: ① is out of the elders of the care of the younger generation (fear that you will be harmed); ② out of the elders of the younger generation of utilitarianism, (people are self-interested, the elders are still counting on you to give them happiness after the success).

4, the generation gap, due to the contemporary economic and scientific and technological development, the popularity of modern civilization and changes in global climatic conditions and other factors, so that each generation to reach the maturity of the adult standard earlier, your mental and physical development are earlier than your father's generation, and their experience to educate and treat you naturally contradictions will arise.